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12-23-2017, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted by mig1
It is not acceptable under any circumstances for a married man (or unmarried) to text your girlfriend at any time, unless it relates to business or he is a known friend and even then there are boundries.
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I would never text my female friends at 11 pm unless it was a dire emergency because I have respect for their SOs (and I do not want to wake them up). I cannot fathom texting a member of the opposite sex that late. You do it for one reason - booty call. Or, you are an idiot with no social skills. |
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12-25-2017, 02:31 PM
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When I asked her about it she said he works late because he’s a doctor. I asked why he was texting her at night and first thing in the morning and she said “I don’t know why do t you ask him”. I asked how she thinks his wife might feel if she saw the texts and she said “Im not her so I can’t tell you what she would think”.
I asked if the shoe was on the other foot how would she react, would you be suspicious? She said, “ I guess so and I would probably ask you about it”
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12-25-2017, 02:33 PM
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Location: Denver, CO
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Originally Posted by montana23
When I asked her about it she said he works late because he’s a doctor. I asked why he was texting her at night and first thing in the morning and she said “I don’t know why do t you ask him”. I asked how she thinks his wife might feel if she saw the texts and she said “Im not her so I can’t tell you what she would think”.
I asked if the shoe was on the other foot how would she react, would you be suspicious? She said, “ I guess so and I would probably ask you about it”
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To me it seems she is almost flaunting a relationship with this guy. She seems very flippant. Is she kind of an airhead type, or does she have a good head on her shoulders? At the least, she isn't being very respectful to you, and is taking you for granted. Shake her up, and move in with a friend for a few weeks. |
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12-25-2017, 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted by montana23
When I asked her about it she said he works late because he’s a doctor. I asked why he was texting her at night and first thing in the morning and she said “I don’t know why do t you ask him”. I asked how she thinks his wife might feel if she saw the texts and she said “Im not her so I can’t tell you what she would think”.
I asked if the shoe was on the other foot how would she react, would you be suspicious? She said, “ I guess so and I would probably ask you about it”
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To me it seems she is almost flaunting a relationship with this guy. She seems very flippant. Is she kind of an airhead type, or does she have a good head on her shoulders? |
Yeah did feel like a "what are you gonna do about it" kind of response. |
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12-25-2017, 02:46 PM
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Originally Posted by Pilot1
To me it seems she is almost flaunting a relationship with this guy. She seems very flippant. Is she kind of an airhead type, or does she have a good head on her shoulders? At the least, she isn't being very respectful to you, and is taking you for granted. Shake her up, and move in with a friend for a few weeks.
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Totally disagree with this. You don't go trying to hurt someone by doing what they're doing. She answered your questions. If you have more, ask the guy and his wife , as she indicated you should. Go to the source. |
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12-25-2017, 03:15 PM
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Totally disagree with this. You don't go trying to hurt someone by doing what they're doing. She answered your questions. If you have more, ask the guy and his wife , as she indicated you should. Go to the source.
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It is obvious she thinks she has him wrapped around her little finger, and maybe she does. The OP needs to upset the apple cart a little bit, or move on. |
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12-25-2017, 11:40 PM
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It is obvious she thinks she has him wrapped around her little finger, and maybe she does. The OP needs to upset the apple cart a little bit, or move on.
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She does seem a bit arrogant but he shouldn't act like a jerk too. She could leave and that isn't what he , or her , wants. She is saying ask him I'm suggesting call her bluff. |
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12-27-2017, 08:35 AM
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you def. need to shake her.
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12-27-2017, 03:23 PM
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She is definitely banging that guy. Gather as much evidence as you can OP and through it in her face before breaking up with her.
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12-27-2017, 03:52 PM
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You should definitely ask the guys wife. I can guarantee you that will end it pretty quickly. This is textbook emotional affair that is about to go physical. You should have never listened to bad advice and do soft reveal. You should have pretended like you knew nothing and simply collected evidence of their affair. With that said, if youre not married and dont have kids together....
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