U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
 
 
Old 12-23-2017, 03:54 PM
 
5,198 posts, read 4,981,789 times
Reputation: 13236

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by mig1 View Post
It is not acceptable under any circumstances for a married man (or unmarried) to text your girlfriend at any time, unless it relates to business or he is a known friend and even then there are boundries.
I would never text my female friends at 11 pm unless it was a dire emergency because I have respect for their SOs (and I do not want to wake them up). I cannot fathom texting a member of the opposite sex that late. You do it for one reason - booty call. Or, you are an idiot with no social skills.
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message

 
Old 12-25-2017, 02:31 PM
 
8 posts, read 26,383 times
Reputation: 20
When I asked her about it she said he works late because he’s a doctor. I asked why he was texting her at night and first thing in the morning and she said “I don’t know why do t you ask him”. I asked how she thinks his wife might feel if she saw the texts and she said “Im not her so I can’t tell you what she would think”.

I asked if the shoe was on the other foot how would she react, would you be suspicious? She said, “ I guess so and I would probably ask you about it”
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-25-2017, 02:33 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
32,813 posts, read 16,242,748 times
Reputation: 24469
Quote:
Originally Posted by montana23 View Post
When I asked her about it she said he works late because he’s a doctor. I asked why he was texting her at night and first thing in the morning and she said “I don’t know why do t you ask him”. I asked how she thinks his wife might feel if she saw the texts and she said “Im not her so I can’t tell you what she would think”.

I asked if the shoe was on the other foot how would she react, would you be suspicious? She said, “ I guess so and I would probably ask you about it”
To me it seems she is almost flaunting a relationship with this guy. She seems very flippant. Is she kind of an airhead type, or does she have a good head on her shoulders? At the least, she isn't being very respectful to you, and is taking you for granted. Shake her up, and move in with a friend for a few weeks.
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-25-2017, 02:35 PM
 
1,199 posts, read 670,185 times
Reputation: 1547
Quote:
Originally Posted by Pilot1 View Post
Quote:
Originally Posted by montana23 View Post
When I asked her about it she said he works late because he’s a doctor. I asked why he was texting her at night and first thing in the morning and she said “I don’t know why do t you ask him”. I asked how she thinks his wife might feel if she saw the texts and she said “Im not her so I can’t tell you what she would think”.

I asked if the shoe was on the other foot how would she react, would you be suspicious? She said, “ I guess so and I would probably ask you about it”
To me it seems she is almost flaunting a relationship with this guy. She seems very flippant. Is she kind of an airhead type, or does she have a good head on her shoulders?
Yeah did feel like a "what are you gonna do about it" kind of response.
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-25-2017, 02:46 PM
 
416 posts, read 205,813 times
Reputation: 331
Quote:
Originally Posted by Pilot1 View Post
To me it seems she is almost flaunting a relationship with this guy. She seems very flippant. Is she kind of an airhead type, or does she have a good head on her shoulders? At the least, she isn't being very respectful to you, and is taking you for granted. Shake her up, and move in with a friend for a few weeks.
Totally disagree with this. You don't go trying to hurt someone by doing what they're doing. She answered your questions. If you have more, ask the guy and his wife , as she indicated you should. Go to the source.
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-25-2017, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
32,813 posts, read 16,242,748 times
Reputation: 24469
Quote:
Originally Posted by Idkeither View Post
Totally disagree with this. You don't go trying to hurt someone by doing what they're doing. She answered your questions. If you have more, ask the guy and his wife , as she indicated you should. Go to the source.
It is obvious she thinks she has him wrapped around her little finger, and maybe she does. The OP needs to upset the apple cart a little bit, or move on.
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-25-2017, 11:40 PM
 
416 posts, read 205,813 times
Reputation: 331
Quote:
Originally Posted by Pilot1 View Post
It is obvious she thinks she has him wrapped around her little finger, and maybe she does. The OP needs to upset the apple cart a little bit, or move on.
She does seem a bit arrogant but he shouldn't act like a jerk too. She could leave and that isn't what he , or her , wants. She is saying ask him I'm suggesting call her bluff.
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-27-2017, 08:35 AM
 
Location: 415->916->602
3,145 posts, read 2,376,263 times
Reputation: 3862
you def. need to shake her.
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-27-2017, 03:23 PM
 
531 posts, read 351,139 times
Reputation: 904
She is definitely banging that guy. Gather as much evidence as you can OP and through it in her face before breaking up with her.
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message
 
Old 12-27-2017, 03:52 PM
 
336 posts, read 174,767 times
Reputation: 409
You should definitely ask the guys wife. I can guarantee you that will end it pretty quickly. This is textbook emotional affair that is about to go physical. You should have never listened to bad advice and do soft reveal. You should have pretended like you knew nothing and simply collected evidence of their affair. With that said, if youre not married and dont have kids together....
Rate this post positively Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


 
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:
Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2023, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top