Girlfriend getting late night texts and good morning texts (boyfriends, women, love)

[historyfan]

Tell you it's your understanding that you are exclusive. Then listen.

[old_cold]

How do you know about the morning texts? Were you looking over her shoulder?

[montana23]

The married man is a prominent doctor in the town we live in. My girlfriend owns her own massage business. Apparently she went to his house I believe while his wife was there and gave him a treatment. That still doesn’t explain the 11:04 pm message from a married man.

[montana23]

the messages were time and date stamped. I was in bed when she responds.

[Sydney123]

Funny how people " qualify" their snooping before getting to the meat. LOL

[TabulaRasa]

Is it really snooping if someone leaves their communication open on your device?

[Sydney123]

Originally Posted by TabulaRasa

Is it really snooping if someone leaves their communication open on your device?

Yup... just because it's open doesn't give you permission to read it. The device might be yours but the page is not.

[montana23]

I guess I should have covered my eyes the moment the message came in, shut down the computer and forgot all about it.

[Sydney123]

In almost every thread like this... seems as it's always discovered by "accident" while innocently going about their business. lol

[Kgryfon]

Send the messages to his wife and ask her to ask her husband why he his sending good morning and good night messages to your GF. Then ask your GF the same. In that order so they don't have time to coordinate their responses.


And forget anyone who gives you a hard time for looking at the car wreck happening right in front of your face. Likely they are cheaters who think that confirming valid suspicions is worse than actually cheating...