Dating coach advises men to date girlfriend 5-10 years before getting married (how to, love)
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The only girl who will still be by your side after 5-10 years is one who has no where else to go. Those who will make your life fabulous are the ones who are gone after two years. S-hit or get off the pot after two years.
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Originally Posted by Lieneke
The only girl who will still be by your side after 5-10 years is one who has no where else to go. Those who will make your life fabulous are the ones who are gone after two years. S-hit or get off the pot after two years.
If they bolt after two years, they can’t be too concerned or care about making your life fabulous just because of the lack of a government issued paper eh?
Most smart women won't wait 5 to 10 years for a proposal. They will move on.
If they were on to a good thing and the relationship was one of those few that either met or exceeded their expectations, would a proposal even matter? Much better to enjoy something for what it is than put it on some arbitrary schedule.
If they were on to a good thing and the relationship was one of those few that either met or exceeded their expectations, would a proposal even matter? Much better to enjoy something for what it is than put it on some arbitrary schedule.
This makes sense to me
I don't understand why, but I do understand that a legal marriage if of very high importance to some people.
Me and my wife moved in together at year 6 and got married at year 7. She was is/was attractive, smart and studying for her PhD at the time so I’m sure she could have had plenty of options if she chose.
Everyone is different. Get married when you’re both ready, not a day before.
I wouldn’t even consider marrying anyone until I’ve dated them for at least 5 years.
That sounds like a male point of view. Women are looking at two years, and then it's time to buy in or move on. You will be left with nothing more than the woman you couldn't get rid of even if you wanted to.
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