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I saw a video recently from a dating coach named Mr. Locario where he says that you should make a woman wait 5-10 years before deciding to marry her so that you can fully know what you are getting yourself into.
ok well what I meant is that he was saying you should DATE someone for 5-10 years before getting married
He does say, "Let her wait ..." on the video clip you linked. That's just playing games.
Here's the thing ... these guys (who are not really "coaches," by the way, but opportunists taking advantage of you for your money) teach you to treat women as objects, as something to acquire. This method doesn't see women as human but as a commodity.
That means they don't see YOU as human, either, but merely as a target. He's capitalizing on your insecurity.
ok well what I meant is that he was saying you should DATE someone for 5-10 years before getting married
The only girl who will still be by your side after 5-10 years is one who has no where else to go. Those who will make your life fabulous are the ones who are gone after two years. S-hit or get off the pot after two years.
He does say, "Let her wait ..." on the video clip you linked. That's just playing games.
Here's the thing ... these guys (who are not really "coaches," by the way, but opportunists taking advantage of you for your money) teach you to treat women as objects, as something to acquire. This method doesn't see women as human but as a commodity.
That means they don't see YOU as human, either, but merely as a target. He's capitalizing on your insecurity.
Ignore this kind of advice.
"Let her wait" 5 - 10 years sounds like a mysogenist phrase.
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I wouldn’t even consider marrying anyone until I’ve dated them for at least 5 years.
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