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Old 01-05-2018, 02:54 PM
 
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I have a lady that i meet multiple times a year. Whenever we are close to each other, we are starting to have feelings, make love, but when she leaves back home to her country, she is losing it all. We had relationship before, but we broke up because of distance - however, we always kept in touch, almost in daily basis for more than a year now

Ladies:

- is it hard for you to keep a relationship up from long distance? (different country)
- if a woman loses her feelings from distance, it is because the lack of physical contact (sex, cuddling, live talk), or it is because she doesn't love the man seriously?

I know that if we are close together, it works, but it makes me think why she loses feelings when it comes to distance between us. Shall i continue this, and try moving to her, or if a woman does this, it means she doesn't love me?
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Old 01-05-2018, 03:17 PM
 
Location: Canada
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It could be both. It takes something really special to overcome the distance and lack of being in each other's physical presence. To spend all of your free time in a relationship but alone without that person to cuddle with, go on a date with, go on a double date with, have them with you when you go to activities, events or parties where other couples are.

Seeing each other only on occasion isn't remotely the same as an actual relationship where you see each other often or live together.

Is the distance ever going to change?
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Old 01-05-2018, 03:22 PM
 
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Long distance relationships are HARD for most people. Especially if there's no end to the long distance in sight.
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Old 01-06-2018, 07:09 AM
 
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Sorry to put a negative spin on it.
But have you ever thought that maybe she's just all nice when she's with you while she;s getting what she wants.

But then later when she leaves , she's gotten what she wants and so later doesn't have to bother being all nice and lovey dovey too much in between.

A lot of people just flick the old lovey dovey nice switch off once they have what they want,
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Old 01-06-2018, 07:14 AM
 
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It could be both. It takes something really special to overcome the distance and lack of being in each other's physical presence. To spend all of your free time in a relationship but alone without that person to cuddle with, go on a date with, go on a double date with, have them with you when you go to activities, events or parties where other couples are.

Seeing each other only on occasion isn't remotely the same as an actual relationship where you see each other often or live together.

Is the distance ever going to change?
The last question is important.

Do you two talk about what the future might look like? Are there plans in place for developing the relationship further and being able to spend more time together?
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Old 01-06-2018, 01:07 PM
 
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The last question is important.

Do you two talk about what the future might look like? Are there plans in place for developing the relationship further and being able to spend more time together?
I'm thinking about moving to her
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