How Common are Threesomes? (marriage, woman, cheat, husband)

[Fat Freddy]

Originally Posted by cremebrulee

...I found being deeply in love with a man, and indulging in intimacy, made the intimacy all that more spectacular....precious, soft, caring and spiritually satisfying....this is what God wanted man/women to experience when he granted us that gift...But to indulge in a threesome? I could never do that.

So who defines "being deeply in love", you or God?
And what makes you think that God's sexual arithmetic is limited to 1+1=2?

[MaggieZ]

LOL Freddie....

I think it's up to consenting adults to decide how many they like to have sex with at one time. If you decide 3-4-5 somes are not for you, it's nothing to do with a god or your religion. I don't do three(or more)somes and I'm an atheist. I make that choice.

[TwiloMike]

I know several couples, all in long term relationships, who engage in threesomes, sex parties, etc.

[desertsun41]

Originally Posted by cremebrulee

I don't know how popular threesomes are....

Also add, that when your really in love with someone, sex for me, became something awesomely spiritual....it isn't always about how your partner performs, but the feelings within oneself for that person which boils over into a...well, I'll stop here... what I'm tying to explain is....I found being deeply in love with a man, and indulging in intimacy, made the intimacy all that more spectacular....precious, soft, caring and spiritually satisfying....like an out of body experience, which to me, took it way beyond fantasy. And I kept thinking, this is what God wanted man/women to experience when he granted us that gift. Also felt, now, I really know and have experienced, unconditional love....the feelings within me were so complete, so beyond what I ever imagined sexual intimacy...it was indeed a oneness....beautiful...and more then I had ever imagined.

But to indulge in a threesome? I could never do that.

Creme

That was quite the description. You should be a writer. REPs for you my friend.

[geeoro]

In a way, all the points brought up here are true. For some people to have sex should be a spritual ecperience with your loving partner. Some people feel that love is not sex and can seperate the two. To "make love" with a special partner does not mean that you cannot also have sexual fun in threesomes or for or five etc. It really does depend on what floats your boat. There are certain taboos that should never be indulged in, eg. Children, Rape, Pain, cheating etc. To have a threesome can be much better than the fantasy as long as you do not get jelouse or try to make it a loving experience. It is dangerous for threesomes to be engaged in if only one of the partners really wants it. If you are at all unsure then keep it as a fantasy.

[mishigas73]

Originally Posted by geeoro

In a way, all the points brought up here are true. For some people to have sex should be a spritual ecperience with your loving partner. Some people feel that love is not sex and can seperate the two. To "make love" with a special partner does not mean that you cannot also have sexual fun in threesomes or for or five etc. It really does depend on what floats your boat. There are certain taboos that should never be indulged in, eg. Children, Rape, Pain, cheating etc. To have a threesome can be much better than the fantasy as long as you do not get jelouse or try to make it a loving experience. It is dangerous for threesomes to be engaged in if only one of the partners really wants it. If you are at all unsure then keep it as a fantasy.

Great summary. I agree.

I know quite a few people who have done this. It's just what they wanted at the time. No judgments at all. To each their own.

[geeoro]

Thanks mishigas. I thought i was going "mishiga" with some of these opinions. (lol)

[mishigas73]

Originally Posted by geeoro

Thanks mishigas. I thought i was going "mishiga" with some of these opinions. (lol)

Not as far as I'm concerned.

But, then again, sometimes it DOES seem a bit "crazy" not to judge others for what they do in their private lives.

[robertpolyglot]

Originally Posted by ndfmnlf

but with recent reports of the ex-governor of New Jersey having a threesome with his ex-wife and chauffeur

Are you 'effin serious? Is this speculation or has it been validated? I'm sorry, then, but she is just as weird as he was/is. I would hope they are NOT common.

Yeah, it's great fodder for a steamy R-rated movie and I am not in the least bit offended. I prefer that it stays on celluloid and not brought to real life. I think that any couple that has these has some deep-rooted problems in their relationship or some intimacy issues. What's missing in the relationship that this needs to be introduced?

I'm sorry if I am not that progressive here. Maybe it's my age. I was a kid when "Bob and Carol and Ted and Alice" came out, but remember vaguely what it was about. (Some of you might not have even been born then).

Sidebar: Doesn't this also make the couple, or one of the parties in it, bisexual? If so, how could you "trust" your mate? They might even be getting a little more on the side that you might not be seeing. Yikes....bringing home some extra bacteria in the process. Funny and sad at the same time.

[mishigas73]

Originally Posted by robertpolyglot

I think that any couple that has these are some deep-rooted problems in their relationship and/or some intimacy issues.

Hmmm....just as I made a comment about judging people. It's nice not to be disappointed.