How Common are Threesomes? (married, girl, single, cheated)

[Hasdrubal]

just type "swinger club" and you'll come up with thousands of matches. They are widespread all around the US, not only in liberal states but also in so-called conservative ones such as Texas or Georgia. Florida will host a mega swing-party this summer, and thousands of couples are expected to attend. I've seen some documentary about swinging lifestyle and certainly defies the stereotype of "old, fat dudes who cannot get a girl". You could see couples of all kinds, albeit they were generally what you would call "normal people", even a lot of them were college-educated with kids.

[The Man in SATX]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Do you expect people to broadcast it...?!

I guess not.. but you would think that after all these years I would have seen or heard of it.. maybe it is because I am not interested in it!

[cremebrulee]

Originally Posted by Fat Freddy

So who defines "being deeply in love", you or God?
And what makes you think that God's sexual arithmetic is limited to 1+1=2?

I don't know, I just know, Me and what I can and can't participate in....and a threesome is not, nor never has been for me....yuck? And I don't care if everyone's doing it and I'm the only one who isn't...I'd still not participate....to me, that's sex...not making love...there is a difference.

[loose cannon]

Threesomes are popular in the bisexual crowd. If a woman is bi she is going to agree and probaly is clamoring for a threesome. A heterosexual woman is not going to do this no matter how hard her mate tries to convince her. This brings up the question, how many people are bi?. I think it is possible that 17% of women and 13 % of men are this way. The rate used to be lower but with the growing sexism in our culture it has changed. Shows like the L word, Skinemax, and syndicated shows with lesbian characters have influenced more women to try the other side. And MTV/Viacom networks historical promotion of the Gay male has also influenced young men.

[Stace08]

Most times when something makes the news it is because it is unique,newsworthy, previously unheard of. That is what makes it news. Threesomes would fit this category.
Engaging in this behavior makes us a strong couple?!?! Using other people for their body makes us stronger?!?!? What a turn on, not!

[Bette]

Originally Posted by cremebrulee

I don't know how popular threesomes are....

Also add, that when your really in love with someone, sex for me, became something awesomely spiritual....it isn't always about how your partner performs, but the feelings within oneself for that person which boils over into a...well, I'll stop here... what I'm tying to explain is....I found being deeply in love with a man, and indulging in intimacy, made the intimacy all that more spectacular....precious, soft, caring and spiritually satisfying....like an out of body experience, which to me, took it way beyond fantasy. And I kept thinking, this is what God wanted man/women to experience when he granted us that gift. Also felt, now, I really know and have experienced, unconditional love....the feelings within me were so complete, so beyond what I ever imagined sexual intimacy...it was indeed a oneness....beautiful...and more then I had ever imagined.

But to indulge in a threesome? I could never do that.

Creme

I could never either and I agree with what you wrote!

[JerZ]

Originally Posted by Hasdrubal

just type "swinger club" and you'll come up with thousands of matches. They are widespread all around the US, not only in liberal states but also in so-called conservative ones such as Texas or Georgia. Florida will host a mega swing-party this summer, and thousands of couples are expected to attend. I've seen some documentary about swinging lifestyle and certainly defies the stereotype of "old, fat dudes who cannot get a girl". You could see couples of all kinds, albeit they were generally what you would call "normal people", even a lot of them were college-educated with kids.

Well, if you say so. I just can't picture it. At least not without a disco ball.

[michea29]

where are some of these clubs

[Morphous01]

Originally Posted by michea29

where are some of these clubs

I have a friend who is a bouncer at a club. Pretty much if a club has a bed, or dark rooms with sofas this kind of stuff CAN go on.

I think it's crazy that people go into clubs to drink and stuff then go in rooms in the back to do stuff like this.... It's a good way to get a STD, as a matter or fact, your proly safer with a sex worker then sleeping with random people who don't get tested and may not always use protection because it's not a job to them its the pleasure they are after.

[DixieChick1972]

Somebody once extended the offer.... I declined with a resounding HELL no.