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I think that, if I had to analyze the high divorce rate, I would slice up the pie as follows (judging from my friends):
25 % - sexual or emotional infidelity, deciding they wanted someone else later on
25 % - emotional immaturity, particularly for young marriages where people's personalities weren't fully developed
50% - selfishness...on many levels...generally ridiculously high or unfair expectations (non-sexual ones) not met
So, the "threesome zone" would only fall into the 25% of the pie and may not even chew up that 25%
Back to the ex-NJ governor, was his wife really involved in threesomes?
Which 25% would you put threesomes in? As i said earlier that threesomes can only not be a problem if the relationship is solid. The threesome isn't the problem. It's the reason for it that can be the problem. If you are going into a threesome for selfish reasons it will end in disaster. If both partners are not 100% commited to each other, even letting the other partner go to a party or disco or business trip can end in disaster. Most divorces end because one or both partners have become disillusioned about the other partner.
I think the biggest problem with threesomes or any extra curricular sexual activity is diseases. In todays world things like Aids have made it dangerous to have many sexual contacts. That is the problem, not the threesome etc.
Also add, that when your really in love with someone, sex for me, became something awesomely spiritual....it isn't always about how your partner performs, but the feelings within oneself for that person which boils over into a...well, I'll stop here... what I'm tying to explain is....I found being deeply in love with a man, and indulging in intimacy, made the intimacy all that more spectacular....precious, soft, caring and spiritually satisfying....like an out of body experience, which to me, took it way beyond fantasy. And I kept thinking, this is what God wanted man/women to experience when he granted us that gift. Also felt, now, I really know and have experienced, unconditional love....the feelings within me were so complete, so beyond what I ever imagined sexual intimacy...it was indeed a oneness....beautiful...and more then I had ever imagined.
But to indulge in a threesome? I could never do that.
Creme
Creme - Beautifully said! That's exactly how I think. Nothing against those that would or do enjoy threesomes, but would bring me no satisfaction. I've never known anyone to have threesomes.... but then again, I doubt that most people that do this broadcast it to others?
I bet there are plenty of couples who do it, people you would never suspect. We all have this image in our head about people we think we know. We're usually way off...
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what I'm tying to explain is....I found being deeply in love with a man, and indulging in intimacy, made the intimacy all that more spectacular....precious, soft, caring and spiritually satisfying....like an out of body experience, which to me, took it way beyond fantasy. And I kept thinking, this is what God wanted man/women to experience when he granted us that gift. Also felt, now, I really know and have experienced, unconditional love....the feelings within me were so complete, so beyond what I ever imagined sexual intimacy...it was indeed a oneness....beautiful...and more then I had ever imagined.
