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Originally Posted by homina12
I'm absolutely not in favor of bitterness. I'm not in favor of wallowing. I've done enough of both to see in exquisite detail the damage they cause for the doer and those does to. I don't think anyone who spends five minutes here would thing that this forum generally welcomes bitter people expressing their bitterness. And yet they keep coming.
I count you among the 15-20 regular posters who come here, for lack of a better way to put it, to help. I'll ask you what I asked timberline. Are we helping?
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If the answer is no, what is the plan? To stop posting? Just curious.
I am 100% certain we are bringing a percentage of people to see reality. They probably will not post such epiphanies; on internet forums, complaints and issues tend to be posted far more than positive commentary. That's just standard.
A percentage can't be helped by an internet forum. That's standard too. And a percentage will continue to keep trying to post trigger stuff, because otherwise they would never receive any attention at all. Like toddlers do, negative attention. Though I feel sorry for this category I don't count them among the potentially dangerous, to themselves or anybody else. They are getting something out of being inflammatory so they don't want actual help anyway. No biggie.