40 year old man never been in a relationship... What about sex?? (young, attractive)

[homina12]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Huh?

I'm being sarcastic. He seemed to **** you off more than offer you something you can work with.

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

That's bull****..sure I want a women I'm physically attracted to but I'm not asking for perfection..

Here's the thing though. The majority of people lose their virginity before the age of 21. Do you think that each one of those people were as picky as you are? Do you think that maybe there is something else going on here other than your aesthetic preferences?

Look, the longer you wait, the bigger bete noir this whole virginity thing is. And by now it's HUUUUGE. Either make it a goal, or accept that it's not going to happen. Or, you could just keep complaining about it, that appears to give you some kind of enjoyable sensation...

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by zentropa

Here's the thing though. The majority of people lose their virginity before the age of 21. Do you think that each one of those people were as picky as you are? Do you think that maybe there is something else going on here other than your aesthetic preferences?

Look, the longer you wait, the bigger bete noir this whole virginity thing is. And by now it's HUUUUGE. Either make it a goal, or accept that it's not going to happen. Or, you could just keep complaining about it, that appears to give you some kind of enjoyable sensation...

I'm not extremely picky I just cant approach women I don't know..

Of course it's a goal it's something I'm trying to accomplish so I need to get over my fear and anxiety somehow..

[MLSFan]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

I'm not extremely picky I just cant approach women I don't know..

Of course it's a goal it's something I'm trying to accomplish so I need to get over my fear and anxiety somehow..

so approach women you do know...

or do they know you too well and decided they don't want to have sex with you?

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

I'm not extremely picky I just cant approach women I don't know..

Of course it's a goal it's something I'm trying to accomplish so I need to get over my fear and anxiety somehow..

Dude, just go to OK Cupid, or Tinder, set up some first meetings, and let chemistry happen. It will happen.

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by MLSFan

so approach women you do know...

or do they know you too well and decided they don't want to have sex with you?

Most of my friends are married with kids so I have no single women in my social circle..

I have one single female friend who I like but dont think she's interested in me.

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by timberline742

Dude, just go to OK Cupid, or Tinder, set up some first meetings, and let chemistry happen. It will happen.

I've tried old for a little while and got no responses back ..I'm not photogenic at all so old doesn't work for me..

[MLSFan]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Most of my friends are married with kids so I have no single women in my social circle..

so expend your social circle...

sounds like you haven't made a friend that wasn't a co-worker since you left college

if you don't want to approach women you don't know, then get to know them first through an activity you enjoy

hell, go attend church, nearly half of them are women in any given church <--- they won't make you cry at church for fear of being "judged"

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

I've tried old for a little while and got no responses back ..I'm not photogenic at all so old doesn't work for me..

There are not-unattractive women out there who would love to usher you into manhood. Have you tried mentioning on your profile that you are "inexperienced" and looking for a female "guiding hand"? I bet that would bring some action to your Inbox.

[Standing by for your reason this can never work...]

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

I've tried old for a little while and got no responses back ..I'm not photogenic at all so old doesn't work for me..

Well, I'm not either (and I'm FAR from good looking). And a "little while" doesn't cut it. You quit too easily.