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So today i was heading to work and i took a picture of a cool old car i saw parked. Then as i was walking, my ex comes besides me and says “why did you take a picture of me?” (His car i noticed afterwards was across the street so he jogged across the street to talk to me) I responded “ i didnt?? He says “common...” then i showed him the picture and he was like “oh” then he says “i saw you have two tinders... whats up with that” i explained it was a mistake, i was locked out of my initial one. He says “oh okay”. “So how is school? Do you work closeby?” I replied “yeah i do, recently” when i told him i am so ready to finish school and just relax, he laughed and smjled. My ex and i broke up a year ago...just didnt feel it anymore. As i looked into his eyes, when he was talking to me he looked almost sad.. it was weird. Do you think he was looking for an excuse to talk to me? That he might still have feelings.
I ended things with him because he didnt put effort into our relationship. He was very angry at the time and blocked me from all social media
Last edited by Seahorse90; 02-07-2018 at 08:38 PM..
I ended things because he didnt put in much effort in our relationship and he was angry at the time. But he seemed calm and gentle when he approached me
People get sentimental weeks or months on down the line. We forget the bad parts because we don't have to deal with them anymore. He felt that "she's really gone" feeling but the same problems would likely come back if you were back together. It was a fleeting thing.
I ended things because he didnt put in much effort in our relationship and he was angry at the time. But he seemed calm and gentle when he approached me
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Originally Posted by BirdieBelle
Don't read too much into one moment.
He's an ex for a reason.
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I feel like what you want to hear is, "He's changed, is now calm and gentle and attentive, and you should get back with him.
But how likely is it that that's true?
Right! ^^^^^ What you expected, OP? Him yelling at you, or trying to slap you in the public?
Sure, he is gentle... trying to get in your pants... hahaha!
Meh....only you truly know the circumstances and conditions of your previous relationship with him.
However, it does look like you're reading into it a bit too much, seems like you're the one that still cares for him. Nothing wrong with that, but to judge his entire character off of one moment of seeing him again is not wise. He may have changed but then again maybe he hasn't.
If facebook is blocked, is there any chance of him getting hold of you again anyways even if he wanted to? Did it seem like to you he was initiating contact again with intent of getting back together?
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