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Old 02-13-2018, 02:07 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Neither good nor bad, unless they pose a danger to either party.

 
Old 02-13-2018, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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There is nothing explicit in my question so I don't see why it would get shut down.
Because it is more about sexuality than it is about relationships.
 
Old 02-13-2018, 02:15 PM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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Fetishes seem creepy to me, so Yes and Yes.
 
Old 02-13-2018, 02:17 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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If it is fun and enjoyable between consenting adults... it is all good.
 
Old 02-13-2018, 02:34 PM
 
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Fetishes seem creepy to me, so Yes and Yes.
Agreed.

I dated a guy who was into feet. Total turn off. He was always obsessing about my shoes and whether or not I had a pedicure. I was completely creeped out. It was harmless but not my cuppa tea.

Someone who obsesses to the point of a fetish and needs it to be satisfied is not someone I will be happy with. Everyone has preferences. Fetishes, to me, take preference to a level I am not comfortable with.
 
Old 02-13-2018, 02:38 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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is this about diapers and showers who aren't water?
 
Old 02-13-2018, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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I would not really be happy with a foot person, either.

Also I laugh to remember a conversation in an adult social media group where somebody brought up the subject of poo, and someone else said, "even the pee people look down on the poop people."

There are plenty of fetishes I just am not into, but if it's all consenting adult humans involved, and no one is being actually harmed, then it's not my place to judge. Also, I believe that definitions both official and unofficial have loosened, to the point where a fetish is no longer considered something that you cannot achieve satisfaction without, but rather something that enhances it greatly for you.
 
Old 02-13-2018, 03:14 PM
 
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No problem. I think their is a certain freedom to own what you like and invite your partner to like it too.

Not everyone can be honest-or even vocal about it.
 
Old 02-13-2018, 04:13 PM
 
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I think everyone has them it's just about the severity.
 
Old 02-13-2018, 04:15 PM
 
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What do you base this conclusion on?
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