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I've been out twice with this girl and I get a feeling I MIGHT be seeing some red flags. She already likes to text a lot, and then I basically got a text from her wondering why I don't text her that much. Once she got sad I didn't respond to her text soon enough. It kind of make sure me feel pressured to text her more or respond faster. Then after dates she always basically asks me out again and I got a text today saying "when do I get to see you again." It's just a clingy possessive way to word it. Now she is decent looking, but I'm still not sure how much I like her, and am afraid she will turn crazy on me or something.
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Originally Posted by Berteau
I've been out twice with this girl and I get a feeling I MIGHT be seeing some red flags. She already likes to text a lot, and then I basically got a text from her wondering why I don't text her that much. Once she got sad I didn't respond to her text soon enough. It kind of make sure me feel pressured to text her more or respond faster. Then after dates she always basically asks me out again and I got a text today saying "when do I get to see you again." It's just a clingy possessive way to word it. Now she is decent looking, but I'm still not sure how much I like her, and am afraid she will turn crazy on me or something.
Clingy as . I’d give the next treatment to this one.
Yes, she sounds clingy. It isn't the kiss of death if you like her, and are willing to reassure her that you are interested, but want to get to know her at a slower pace. If she's a big girl, she will adjust her expectations. If she can't do that, move on. None of it means that she is going to go all Fatal Attraction on you, but you might be a mismatch.
Yes, she will probably "turn crazy" - she's already showing the signs. She is needy and insecure and will always need constant validation. Pretty soon if you aren't texting her quickly enough, it will because you're cheating on her! At the very least, she clearly lacks any kind of self-discipline or ability to delay gratification.
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. I’d give the next treatment to this one.
