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I mean...that's all on her though. As far as I can tell, all the guy is guilty of is texting her later in the day than he said he would. That's not cool, but it doesn't warrant ghosting.
I think the idea is, this guy being meh about her is a pattern. Just one time, I'd be saying the same thing, probably, although it still does seem odd to let the whole day go by of they were supposed to be making plans. We all know that unless this guy is currently performing surgery under a tent in hostile territoty amid gunspray, he had 1 minute to text.
But even so, I might feel differently if this weren't something that was sort of a pattern. OP...he's just not that into you.
I agree. Every time she tries to make him conform to what SHE wants, he balks.
But if he wanted her he would want to text her (in a reasonable time frame, not on the button or anything)...right? Any time a guy has been into me he for sure kept putting himself into my sights that way.
I think what she wants to transform him into, if you will, is a guy who wants her.
But if he wanted her he would want to text her (in a reasonable time frame, not on the button or anything)...right? Any time a guy has been into me he for sure kept putting himself into my sights that way.
I think what she wants to transform him into, if you will, is a guy who wants her.
And he's just not into her.
It isn't a good match. It's time to move on.
JMO.
Yes, I am agreeing with you. Actions speak louder than words.
Sometimes I miss Ye Olden Tymes when someone had to leave a message at your home, and because you were out you might not get it for hours or even days, and then you called them back and it was no big deal. The expectation of an instant, immediate response makes me twitchy.
I myself didn't even realize how much drama this is...
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me too
