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I don't consider it a low opinion of men. Men crave sex more than women on a whole. It's amazing to see middle aged men or older start chatting with much younger women. Their eyes start bulging and it's funny to see their drool come down their mouth.
If men got to experience being Tiger Woods in their lifetime, probably 90% of the men would cheat. It's not right but men have less control. Thank goodness most men don't have the opportunities like those famous rich athletes/celebs otherwise there would be a lot more divorces.
I still think the stats still show infidelity is slightly more with men but if you look at the trends... they are almost equal... equalizing. It coincides with age group because we are a product of that time period.
Just browsing thru the casual encounter sections and you will see tons of married men looking for a fling. Married women? Very little.
I really don't think it's the same group of men seeing escorts, members of Ashley Madison or Seeking Arrangements, or those in the casual encounter sections.
If the number of infidelity is equal for both sexes it's only because men lack opportunities.
I still believe married men would cheat more if they had the opportunities. Remember Ashley Madison? Most of the members were men and the few remaining women were a bunch of bots. And then of course we have escorts.
Most married men would become Chris Rock if they had a plethora of young women coming onto them. Thank goodness the majority of married men don't have the financial resources and status as Chris Rock.
Yeah, because EVERY single married man would cheat given the opportunity
No different than thinking every married woman would cheat more if they had model type looks with loaded cash and status. Same thing, and thank goodness for that.
Yeah, because EVERY single married man would cheat given the opportunity
No different than thinking every married woman would cheat more if they had model type looks with loaded cash and status. Same thing, and thank goodness for that.
Not EVERY married man would cheat. There are some with strong moral convictions. But the most do not have the vast amount of opportunities like others. Some are stuck working with only men while there are others who are stuck working with very few women. Some just do not encounter a lot of women in their lives when they are married and stuck in a routine.
But if married men lived the life of a Tiger Woods, watch the infidelity start! Can't compare hundreds of eager women coming on to you vs a few if any coming on to you.
It can be an excuse. If my husband had turned to prostitutes for sex, I would question what I did or didn't do to contribute to that happening.
One thing about seeking a prostitute, for the most part its physical only. There is no emotional bond and therefore no emotional betrayal. It wouldn't necessarily mean he stopped loving me, but it would be a red flag that something has gone wrong in our bedroom, for sure.
If your husband is seeing prostitutes, you have more problems than just in the bedroom. No one can contribute to another seeing a prostitute. Most people don't use other people's bodies as rag dolls for their own satisfaction, that's sick. Most of us prefer to be with people who actually prefer to be with us, not offer their soul "to be used"
If your husband is seeing prostitutes, you have more problems than just in the bedroom. No one can contribute to another seeing a prostitute. Most people don't use other people's bodies as rag dolls for their own satisfaction, that's sick. Most of us prefer to be with people who actually prefer to be with us, not offer their soul "to be used"
I am sure this guy was a piece of work and there were red flags galore which were ignored. They are not being used if this is the way they choose to make their income, it's a business, nothing more, enough with the judgments, this is the 21st century. Supply and demand.
I am sure this guy was a piece of work and there were red flags galore which were ignored. They are not being used if this is the way they choose to make their income, it's a business, nothing more, enough with the judgments, this is the 21st century. Supply and demand.
Most of us prefer to be with people who actually prefer to be with us, not offer their soul "to be used" is not a judgement but a fact.
It is not the wife's fault no matter how you try to spin it. No one forces another to go out using someone elses body like a rag doll. Period.
Nor is it "a business" but it chips away at the soul and body of a fellow human being.
But we all know that. Hence why most of us care for each other not to act so horrifically that we put another persons well being ahead of our own in this manner. But no one is perfect, as we know.
Next time a person desires to pay a prostitute for their own satisfcation, consider giving a donation instead. It is much kinder and you never know if that person needs to eat, needs medical care, or whatever to resort to such drastic measures. You will be blessed by that precious gift. Instead of hurting them, shock then my doing the exact opposite. People matter.
Most of us prefer to be with people who actually prefer to be with us, not offer their soul "to be used" is not a judgement but a fact.
Many of us prefer to have dominion over body... without other's judging.. free will and choice. We sell our labor (body, energy, health) for means to provide and sustain our needs. it doesn't matter if you do it working at a desk, at a constructions site.. whatever.. There is nothing being used here (assuming free will and consent). The only difference is people's judgement.... You don't get to pick and choose people's freedoms based on your own personal biases, what you like, or what you don't like. There are many working girls that don't see it the way you do... and they should be allowed choice regardless of your personal views.
What you posted is absolutely not a fact.. it is judgement based on personal biases. Obviously this type of work would chip away at your person... obviously you can't do this type of work.. and shouldn't. You cannot project on the rest of the population. Just because it isn't your choice doesn't mean it shouldn't be someone else's.
Sex is legal.
Selling is legal.
Labor is legal
Selling is legal.
regardless... the husband broke his agreement that defines the relationship. Legal, religious, personal views are irrelevant. There is no excuse for the husband's behavior.
Many of us prefer to have dominion over body... without other's judging.. free will and choice. We sell our labor (body, energy, health) for means to provide and sustain our needs. it doesn't matter if you do it working at a desk, at a constructions site.. whatever.. There is nothing being used here (assuming free will and consent). The only difference is people's judgement.... You don't get to pick and choose people's freedoms based on your own personal biases, what you like, or what you don't like. There are many working girls that don't see it the way you do... and they should be allowed choice regardless of your personal views.
What you posted is absolutely not a fact.. it is judgement based on personal biases. Obviously this type of work would chip away at your person... obviously you can't do this type of work.. and shouldn't. You cannot project on the rest of the population. Just because it isn't your choice doesn't mean it shouldn't be someone else's.
Sex is legal.
Selling is legal.
Labor is legal
Selling is legal.
regardless... the husband broke his agreement that defines the relationship. Legal, religious, personal views are irrelevant. There is no excuse for the husband's behavior.
You also have to remember that they are some girls that enjoy sex and want to get paid for it.
I know a girl that comes from a wealthy family that was escorting to pay her PhD. She did it for 3.5 years and now is an art curator for extremely rich people. Has her own business with 1 employee.
It's not all that it seems @ BushyEyeBrows. Sex sells and selling sex is the oldest profession on the planet.
Many of us prefer to have dominion over body... without other's judging.. free will and choice. We sell our labor (body, energy, health) for means to provide and sustain our needs. it doesn't matter if you do it working at a desk, at a constructions site.. whatever.. There is nothing being used here (assuming free will and consent). The only difference is people's judgement.... You don't get to pick and choose people's freedoms based on your own personal biases, what you like, or what you don't like. There are many working girls that don't see it the way you do... and they should be allowed choice regardless of your personal views.
What you posted is absolutely not a fact.. it is judgement based on personal biases. Obviously this type of work would chip away at your person... obviously you can't do this type of work.. and shouldn't. You cannot project on the rest of the population. Just because it isn't your choice doesn't mean it shouldn't be someone else's.
Sex is legal.
Selling is legal.
Labor is legal
Selling is legal.
regardless... the husband broke his agreement that defines the relationship. Legal, religious, personal views are irrelevant. There is no excuse for the husband's behavior.
Please stop judging me because I feel people matter.
Again, PEOPLE MATTER.
When you desire to use their soul and body like a rag doll, consider a donation instead.
The blessing will be be beyond what we can imagine! To our own Souls, and theirs
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