Did he lose interest? Or what's going on? (ladies, friends, interested)
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Update- After not talking all day yesterday, I messaged him around 7, asked him how his day was. He answered pretty quickly. Well this is basically the conversation:
Me: Hey, how's your day been?
Him: Busy, long day at work actually. I'm so tired right now
Me: Haha that sucks. And it's been raining a lot
Him: I know. How are you? We could have met tonight
Me: I'm good, just having dinner. Haha, you could have suggested to meet
Him: I know, I wanted to
Me: So why didn't you say something?
Him: I don 't know I'm stupid, I don't know what's going on with me
Me: You wanna do something tomorrow night?
Him: Today would have been better. Tomorrow possibly
Me: Ok. If you want to meet tomorrow sure, if not not. Easy haha
Him: It's not as easy as you think
Me: And that's because...
After that he didn't answer anymore. Still hasn't. I don't get him. Whatever.. I'm not gonna say anything again.
I know right. He's just shifting the blame from him to her. I've been in those situations before and honestly nobody wins. You're always left blaming yourself, because the other person doesn't want to admit fault. That's one thing that really gets under my skin about dating. There's nothing wrong with saying sorry, with an explanation, and then trying to make it up to the person. Just the word sorry by itself means nothing to me; however, paired with an explanation and a plan to fix it, really does make me reevaluate the situation. When people aren't willing to fix a problem early on, it's best to leave them behind along with the aforementioned problem.
EVERY guy [edited]...who is interested in you would have tried to sleep with you already. Every time I hear these stories (or experience it myself) when a man is not eager to get physical, something is wrong.
Not necessarily true, lol...a guy can be in a romantic relationship with a girl, have genuine romantic feelings for her, and even be at her place together with her and cuddling with her, and still not try to sleep with her...I know because I've personally done that before in the past, more than once There are a multitude of possible reasons why a guy might not try to sleep with a girl he is attracted to (even if he knew she would be up for that), for example such as religious reasons, etc.
I start thinking he's crazy. He didn't answer last night after my 'And this is because...' message, then didn't message me all day until an hour ago. An hour ago he literally messaged me saying "So? We're not meeting tonight are we?'
I still haven't answered. I mean wtf...
Update- After not talking all day yesterday, I messaged him around 7, asked him how his day was. He answered pretty quickly. Well this is basically the conversation:
Me: Hey, how's your day been?
Him: Busy, long day at work actually. I'm so tired right now
Me: Haha that sucks. And it's been raining a lot
Him: I know. How are you? We could have met tonight
Me: I'm good, just having dinner. Haha, you could have suggested to meet
Him: I know, I wanted to
Me: So why didn't you say something?
Him: I don 't know I'm stupid, I don't know what's going on with me
Me: You wanna do something tomorrow night?
Him: Today would have been better. Tomorrow possibly
Me: Ok. If you want to meet tomorrow sure, if not not. Easy haha
Him: It's not as easy as you think
Me: And that's because...
After that he didn't answer anymore. Still hasn't. I don't get him. Whatever.. I'm not gonna say anything again.
Weird. Notice, OP, that just because you were having dinner at that moment, didn't mean the evening was shot, with not opportunity to get together. I wonder what he would have said, if you'd said, "Oh, great! Let me finish dinner, and we can go do something."
I start thinking he's crazy. He didn't answer last night after my 'And this is because...' message, then didn't message me all day until an hour ago. An hour ago he literally messaged me saying "So? We're not meeting tonight are we?'
I still haven't answered. I mean wtf...
Oh, God.
Really...don't answer. Just let this guy disappear. He is...odd.
I start thinking he's crazy. He didn't answer last night after my 'And this is because...' message, then didn't message me all day until an hour ago. An hour ago he literally messaged me saying "So? We're not meeting tonight are we?'
I still haven't answered. I mean wtf...
Just put the ball back in his court. Say, "IDK, I've been waiting for your response on that since last night. It's up to you. Where are you at with this?" Put the flake on the spot a little, for not having responded to you. And for being so wishy-washy.
Or say, "You don't sound like you're up for it. Are you ok? What's going on?"
[quote=Ruth4Truth;51184883]Weird. Notice, OP, that just because you were having dinner at that moment, didn't mean the evening was shot, with not opportunity to get together. I wonder what he would have said, if you'd said, "Oh, great! Let me finish dinner, and we can go do something."[/quote]
he probably would have said "you are one hour too late."
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I'm stupid, I don't know what's going on with me
There are a multitude of possible reasons why a guy might not try to sleep with a girl he is attracted to (even if he knew she would be up for that), for example such as religious reasons, etc.
