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Old 03-14-2018, 10:35 AM
 
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It wasn't an La trip I misspoke it was Miami that was the only trip she mentioned and it never happened because of her daughter got sick.

And I haven't been clear either you're right which is why I can't say she's stringing me along but I haven't been clear because her messages haven't either.
Her daughter got sick the day before you were going to leave? So you had to get your tickets refunded, etc? I didn't know it had gone that far that an emergency disrupted your plans. Were you going to be sharing a hotel room?
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Old 03-14-2018, 10:39 AM
 
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Her daughter got sick the day before you were going to leave? So you had to get your tickets refunded, etc? I didn't know it had gone that far that an emergency disrupted your plans. Were you going to be sharing a hotel room?
No we never got the tickets..she texted me one day asking me "if" she goes to Miami with her sister to see some art show a friend of here was having would I like to go I said sure..it was never a sure thing then her daughter got sick and she couldn't go.
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Old 03-14-2018, 10:44 AM
 
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Her teenage daughters the biggest thing in her life as she should be..So her not going out more and following through with things could be because of her.
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Old 03-14-2018, 10:45 AM
 
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No we never got the tickets..she texted me one day asking me "if" she goes to Miami with her sister to see some art show a friend of here was having would I like to go I said sure..it was never a sure thing then her daughter got sick and she couldn't go.
So she never really planned for you to go with her. She made her own plans and then canceled due to an emergency. Right?

Or else it was a big lie. Think logically. The only reason her daughter getting sick would affect her trip was if the trip was already purchased and planned.
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Old 03-14-2018, 10:54 AM
 
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So she never really planned for you to go with her. She made her own plans and then canceled due to an emergency. Right?

Or else it was a big lie. Think logically. The only reason her daughter getting sick would affect her trip was if the trip was already purchased and planned.
I have no idea.. I forget the reason she couldn't go to be honest I just threw the daughter thing out there lol my memories shot..it could have been financial or not getting time off I really didn't pay it much mind maybe I'll look at the text and see

Regardless she couldn't do the trip..and it was a trip to an art show not exactly something I'd be into..so it's not something I really cared about to be honest..
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Old 03-14-2018, 10:56 AM
 
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Did you really just make up an excuse for her?
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Old 03-14-2018, 11:02 AM
 
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Did you really just make up an excuse for her?
She clearly couldn't go so she had a reason I just forgot what exactly she told me..Why would I care the reason she couldn't go? She texted me she might go and do I wanna go then couldn't do the trip it wasn't a big deal why would I put some investigation into it?

Are you saying the trip was fabricated and was never gonna happen? I looked up her friends show it existed she wasn't making it up.
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Old 03-14-2018, 11:05 AM
 
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She clearly couldn't go so she had a reason I just forgot what exactly she told me..Why would I care the reason she couldn't go? She texted me she might go and do I wanna go then couldn't do the trip it wasn't a big deal why would I put some investigation into it?

Are you saying the trip was fabricated and was never gonna happen?
You said that, not me.

What I'm saying is that:

You legit just threw out a random excuse as to why she couldn't go.

Which proves my point that you don't want to accept what's probably REALLY going on.
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Old 03-14-2018, 11:05 AM
 
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I just looked the text she had a falling out with her friend who did the art show..there you go..
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Old 03-14-2018, 11:06 AM
 
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You said that, not me.

What I'm saying is that:

You legit just threw out a random excuse as to why she couldn't go.

Which proves my point that you don't want to accept what's probably REALLY going on.
I just looked at the text she had a falling out with her friend who had the show..as I said my memories shot and I didn't care enough what the reason was to remember why she couldn't go..it was my mistake..that's not really important to the story at all..bottom line is she couldn't go who cares why.

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