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Old 02-28-2018, 11:03 AM
 
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I put who iam what I like and what I value in life..I've only had a few women even look at my profile so if there not gonna look at it what's in it isn't gonna make a difference anyway st this point.
Well, you can change your profile. Make it engaging. Show who you are and what you like to do in an appealing way.

Or you can keep it the same and keep getting the same results.

This is 100% up to you. Full stop. It is up to you.

My BIL, who is pushing 60, and God bless him, is not an Adonis (though I think he's very pleasant-looking), gets date after date after date on OLD, and these are fun, great women. Financially independent, mostly divorced (like him), cute. He is funny; he is bright...but most of all he really talks TO women. He makes a woman feel he really likes women and more importantly, really likes her. He has a great attitude.
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:05 AM
 
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Well, you can change your profile. Make it engaging. Show who you are and what you like to do in an appealing way.

Or you can keep it the same and keep getting the same results.

This is 100% up to you. Full stop. It is up to you.
Umm if there not looking at it it doesn't matter what's in it lol..If they don't like what you look like there not gonna bother to read the profile.
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:07 AM
 
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Well, you can change your profile. Make it engaging. Show who you are and what you like to do in an appealing way.

Or you can keep it the same and keep getting the same results.

This is 100% up to you. Full stop. It is up to you.

My BIL, who is pushing 60, and God bless him, is not an Adonis (though I think he's very pleasant-looking), gets date after date after date on OLD, and these are fun, great women. Financially independent, mostly divorced (like him), cute. He is funny; he is bright...but most of all he really talks TO women. He makes a woman feel he really likes women and more importantly, really likes her. He has a great attitude.
The important part is he gets to TALK to them I don't..
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:08 AM
 
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Umm if there not looking at it it doesn't matter what's in it lol..If they don't like what you look like there not gonna bother to read the profile.
Well then what do you look like in the pics? I'm not talking facial features. Do you have a cute, up-to-date hairstyle? How are you dressed? Are you smiling...looking like you're having a good time?
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:10 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I offered to help. I will try to help. Complaining and giving up won't help. Just saying.
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:11 AM
 
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Well then what do you look like in the pics? I'm not talking facial features. Do you have a cute, up-to-date hairstyle? How are you dressed? Are you smiling...looking like you're having a good time?
My hairs kinda coarse and my hairlines pushed back they'res not much I can do with it.

I'm dressed in a real nice suit in one of them holding my goddaughter
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:12 AM
 
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I offered to help. I will try to help. Complaining and giving up won't help. Just saying.
I'll show you my profile in a little bit
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:12 AM
 
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Use Craigslist instead.

Prob WAYYYYYY easier.
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:14 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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I'm dressed in a real nice suit in one of them holding my goddaughter


Both a negative. Don't use this. The suit, unlike making you look professional and having it together, pushes an uptightness. It is all about fun early on. The child they don't know is your goddaughter (and may think it is yours), and even if they know right away it isn't your kid, loads of people have lots of problems with children being in OLD profiles (the appropriateness of) even if it was yours. Nix that.
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Old 02-28-2018, 11:14 AM
 
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Both a negative. Don't use this.
Why?
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