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well ive been with my girlfriend (ex) now we just broke up in Feb we were talking since sept 2017 we were on and of talking in 2016 and 2017. Then I finally asked her out in Nov 2017 after talkign to for so long. at first I didnt want to be in a relationship but she got to me. Side note: she had a ex boyfriend, to whom she lost her virginity to. I would contiually ask does she still have feeling for him, she would reply "he is in a bad place right and I dont want to be with him:" Going back in Feb 2018 we had a valentines, almost messed up because she was irrated. About 3 weeks ago I found out she went to go see her ex for newborn baby brother she told me she didnt do anything , I believed her. Then we stopped talking when we came to school, and bounced back, then suddenly we just fell off. In a week, I stopped texting her so she assumed I was going to done talk to her so she started talking to her ex where she told me im torn between him and you after a drunk night. What should I do ?
well ive been with my girlfriend (ex) now we just broke up in Feb we were talking since sept 2017 we were on and of talking in 2016 and 2017. Then I finally asked her out in Nov 2017 after talkign to for so long. at first I didnt want to be in a relationship but she got to me. Side note: she had a ex boyfriend, to whom she lost her virginity to. I would contiually ask does she still have feeling for him, she would reply "he is in a bad place right and I dont want to be with him:" Going back in Feb 2018 we had a valentines, almost messed up because she was irrated. About 3 weeks ago I found out she went to go see her ex for newborn baby brother she told me she didnt do anything , I believed her. Then we stopped talking when we came to school, and bounced back, then suddenly we just fell off. In a week, I stopped texting her so she assumed I was going to done talk to her so she started talking to her ex where she told me im torn between him and you after a drunk night. What should I do ?
I feel your confusion, one has to be a tad careful with these things, or run the risk of being accused of being a grammar Nazi, but it doesn’t make it easy, when you feel that you may have missed something in the text, so you keep going back to start over, and re-read the lines.
I got the gist of it, of that I’m reasonably sure, but some parts I’m still unsure of, was she irate at Valentine’s, or just irritated, has the ex acquired a new baby brother, or has the ex’s new girlfriend had a baby boy, a brother for a kid she already had?
Then it looks like they’re both still at school, of course you can be boyfriend/girlfriend while still at school, but I was thinking that they were adults, young adults maybe, but adults all the same.
It made it hard work for me to see exactly what advice the OP was seeking.
Torn. Translation: "I'm not really interested in you."
Move on.
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Originally Posted by Suburban_Guy
People, sorry, but these things really are not that hard to figure out. I keep seeing the same scenarios and questions being asked over and over.
As always, if you have to ask strangers on a forum about these things, the battle has long been lost.
I couldn't think of clearer signs than in the OP's situation that the other party could care less about the 'relationship.'
Save your self respect, dignity, and move on.
I agree, so many people keep making the same mistakes over and over again. At least, that's how it looks. I understand there are subtle differences in terms of dynamics and situations, however, generally, when someone truly likes you and there is minimal drama, you don't question it.
Torn. Translation: "I'm not really interested in you."
Move on.
I agree, so many people keep making the same mistakes over and over again. At least, that's how it looks. I understand there are subtle differences in terms of dynamics and situations, however, generally, when someone truly likes you and there is minimal drama, you don't question it.
Yup, it really is that simple.
In looking at my past, the difference between those who were genuinely interested in me, and those who were not, was like night and day. You WILL know if someone likes you, mostly by their ACTIONS and not words. And by actions I don't mean listless and meandering texts.
well ive been with my girlfriend (ex) now we just broke up in Feb we were talking since sept 2017 we were on and of talking in 2016 and 2017. Then I finally asked her out in Nov 2017 after talkign to for so long. at first I didnt want to be in a relationship but she got to me. Side note: she had a ex boyfriend, to whom she lost her virginity to. I would contiually ask does she still have feeling for him, she would reply "he is in a bad place right and I dont want to be with him:" Going back in Feb 2018 we had a valentines, almost messed up because she was irrated. About 3 weeks ago I found out she went to go see her ex for newborn baby brother she told me she didnt do anything , I believed her. Then we stopped talking when we came to school, and bounced back, then suddenly we just fell off. In a week, I stopped texting her so she assumed I was going to done talk to her so she started talking to her ex where she told me im torn between him and you after a drunk night. What should I do ?
Not your ex. Wasn't your girlfriend.
Don't text her. Don't talk to her.
This "relationship" occupied a blip in time. Move on.
Free advice. No charge.
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