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Old 03-16-2018, 02:00 AM
 
Location: singapore
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Ok so you won’t stick with a woman if she sleeps around..So what makes you guys think a woman will still stick with you when you sleep around as well ??

 
Old 03-16-2018, 02:18 AM
 
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Ok so you won’t stick with a woman if she sleeps around..So what makes you guys think a woman will still stick with you when you sleep around as well ??
It's never hurt me before.
 
Old 03-16-2018, 03:06 AM
 
Location: singapore
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It's never hurt me before.
Then does that give you the right to hurt others ??
 
Old 03-16-2018, 04:59 AM
 
Location: Morrison, CO
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Getting into a commitment too early is asking for trouble. Sex yes. Commitment HELL NO. That takes time.
 
Old 03-16-2018, 08:10 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Are you the same person? There can't be two thinking like this
Yes. Many more than two. It is what it is.

But there are plenty of men who do not as well. I being one of them.
 
Old 03-16-2018, 08:13 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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'Fraid so, Oh-eve. We are what we are. But all is not lost - as you know.

You know, not all men think poorly of a woman who has the same desires as they do. In fact - we love them!
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Yes. Many more than two. It is what it is.

But there are plenty of men who do not as well. I being one of them.
Me too. Why would I have negative views of a woman that likes sex and wants to explore and embrace her sexuality and sensuality. That doesn't make any sense whatsoever.
 
Old 03-17-2018, 02:08 AM
 
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Then does that give you the right to hurt others ??
Who am I hurting by not committing to girls that sleep around?
 
Old 03-17-2018, 03:44 AM
 
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When it comes to relationships with woman , are you the type who like to seal the deal fast or take things slow??

If possible elaborate a bit
If you take things slow you will be put in the friend zone,

If you "seal the deal" you might be labeled a player.

As the third bear says you have to move "just right."
 
Old 03-17-2018, 03:56 AM
 
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LOL yeah, I'm definitely not one to kiss women's asses or to seek their approval. If a girl wants to be promiscuous, good for her. I'd gladly sleep with her.

But I wouldn't settle down with her. If you'd like to marry the girl after I sleep with her, have at it, friend. That's all you.
I think this is the common idea in most men now a days.

Men don't get much benefit from a committed relationship and are now realizing this. Unless he is a freeloader in which there are plenty of low self-esteem girls who will take care of a free loader as if they found a stray puppy.

When most women will put out without being in a commuted relationship then why on earth would a guy commit himself to marriage when there is a risk of him losing half his stuff in a few years.

Sorry ladies. As long as there is FWB and FB around... Chances are you won't be getting a walk down the aisle in that white dress.
 
Old 03-17-2018, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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you not afraid another guy will seal the deal if you take things slow ?
If she can be swayed that easily by another man then she's not the one.
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