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Yes or no? I think I got the slow fade in this interest and for whatever reason interest waned.
This is in reference to my other threads lol. Part of the interest I think waned because this woman has been traveling a lot, but I also mentioned a quick physical withdraw after cuddling the night before.
I don't want to chase but at least show I think it is something that is possibly worth revisiting given our initial strong chemistry.
Part of me also think it risks another shot of the ego, seeing needy, and not having much going on for myself. I'm actively pursuing other dates BTW. Would a call and a text be too much?
I don’t remember you but if you already have another thread on her please stop we don’t need any more!!!
I’d suggest you move on if you got the cold shoulder.
Yes or no? I think I got the slow fade in this interest and for whatever reason interest waned.
This is in reference to my other threads lol. Part of the interest I think waned because this woman has been traveling a lot, but I also mentioned a quick physical withdraw after cuddling the night before.
I don't want to chase but at least show I think it is something that is possibly worth revisiting given our initial strong chemistry.
Part of me also think it risks another shot of the ego, seeing needy, and not having much going on for myself. I'm actively pursuing other dates BTW. Would a call and a text be too much?
I won't discuss the drama-filled details here. However, I will say that I'm married to the girl that I lost contact with for nearly 2 weeks after our 1st date. And it's all because I swallowed my pride and called the girl.
Oh for Christ's sake. If you want to talk to her, talk to her. Don't you have any self-esteem? Either she likes you or she doesn't. This is your life, your time, your interest, so do what you want with it. If she rejects you, so what? You have every right to communicate with her until you get a "no thanks."
I don't have time for the games either. Either she likes you or she doesn't.
Say hello without the expectations of anything, then ask her out for a date if you can still get a good feeling during the text conversation. If you don't, move on.
The longer you wait, the more likely she will think you tested other waters and decided to come back to her as a backup. I must say some women prefer to be pursued and asked out and play a passive role. I admit being guilty of that. Neediness in a guy is if he calls you multiple times a day when you clearly say you prefer texts or not calling at night, etc. but I think showing consistent interest is important, even if it's just simple follow up texts every other day or every few days. If you don't initiate and ask her out, she will think you're not into her and move on. On the other hand if you directly asked her out and she didn't reply the second time, you should move on.
Seeing as the OP never replied back, think it's safe to say he was either ghosted or shot down.
Yep certainly ghosted. This is a woman I went on several dates with for a few weeks, had sex a couple of times, been over to each other place many times, etc. Then slow fade / ghosted boom.
Yep certainly ghosted. This is a woman I went on several dates with for a few weeks, had sex a couple of times, been over to each other place many times, etc. Then slow fade / ghosted boom.
Been there.... it sucks. Sorry to hear it.
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