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Old 03-25-2008, 06:57 PM
 
Location: Telford, TN
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Meet him for a lunch or drinks and see how it goes. If it's good you can always take the next step and if it's bad you won't be in an awkward position.
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Old 03-25-2008, 07:01 PM
 
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Thanks.If he doesnt respond, do you think i should leave it, or should i ask him what you suggested, about meeting him for lunch or drinks ?.I would leave it a while before i contact him again though.
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Old 03-28-2008, 09:29 PM
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Location: MA/NH
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Getting together for lunch is a much better idea than drinks. Skip the alcohol. When you were in school, what were his interests?
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Old 03-28-2008, 10:01 PM
 
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seriously. there are so many low quality males. Especially the great looking ones with the personality of a pig.

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What kind of photos did you send him???
Otherwise, anyone who responds as he did is a complete jerk. I hate to say it, but it sounds like you need some lessons about the quality of males.
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Old 03-28-2008, 10:03 PM
 
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i agree with you.

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He already told you what he wants and whats he thinks of you in that one question. Forget about him, he's a loser and you are better than that.
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Old 03-28-2008, 10:04 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Thanks.If he doesnt respond, do you think i should leave it, or should i ask him what you suggested, about meeting him for lunch or drinks ?.I would leave it a while before i contact him again though.

If he doesnt respond you already know your answer.. as a matter of fact.. you already know your answer to be truthful. I would never in my life be so straight forward as to ask for sex from someone that I just got reaquainted with. Drop the loser.. thats all he is after ... sex..
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Old 03-29-2008, 04:46 AM
 
Location: Charlotte. Or Detroit.
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Add me to the chorus of "forget about him". Sounds like a true loser for real. I can't imagine why you would think he'd be a candidate for anything other than a one-night stand STD donor.
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Old 03-29-2008, 05:05 AM
 
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What a jerk. Tell him you will meet him for sex, make him get a hotel room and stand him up.

Why are you even considering moving forward with this guy? You are worth more than that.
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Old 03-29-2008, 05:21 AM
 
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So a one night stand is out of the question, but fwb which is just a nice way of saying a "series of one night stands" is more palatable to you????

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Old 03-29-2008, 06:06 AM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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He sounds like a total jerk. Are you so desperate for companionship you would settle for this? Please hold out for a little respect.
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