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Nothing wrong with the idea itself per se, but the approach would be a huge turn off for me. Picture an icy shower! Things need to floooowww naturally. I remember a warm good-looking body I could've had use of on one occasion... IF ONLY it didn't open up his mouth...
Ouch.. to say "it" in line with "his mouth" .. doesnt sound well at all.
First point, the guy is still very bitter from his divorce. I'm about his age, but I've been together with the same woman for over 15 years. The only 'cheating' that I've done is talking to other women. In other words, none at all.
However, even married, where ever I go I get the reputation of being able to talk to any woman. Heck, I've even been described once as in an area, find the most beautiful woman and she'll be talking to me. So how do I do it? His point number 17
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17) Never, never, never be afraid to approach a female. To reiterate: they all have the same body parts, and they are all composed of Carbon, Hydrogen, Oxygen, Nitrogen, and trace elements. There isn't a single woman on Earth who is "above" you, no matter what her affectations and social pretenses.
And that to his point 12
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12) The vast majority of men get rejected much more often than they seal the deal. If you are rejected you are simply shooting par. Relax.
In other words, never be afraid to approach someone and know that sometimes you'll receive the cold shoulder or even told to go pound sand. Get shot down? Big deal and move on.
The list is really sad. The man who wrote it thinks that women are only good for sexual pleasure. He doesn't value friendship, companionship or compatiblity. It makes me wonder what is the nature of his male/male relationships. He probably just bonds over drinks and talk about sex. It makes me wonder about his family relationships and his desire for his own family. He is perhaps damaged by his short marriage and divorce.
The list is really sad. The man who wrote it thinks that women are only good for sexual pleasure. He doesn't value friendship, companionship or compatiblity. It makes me wonder what is the nature of his male/male relationships. He probably just bonds over drinks and talk about sex. It makes me wonder about his family relationships and his desire for his own family. He is perhaps damaged by his short marriage and divorce.
Agree totally! This guy concentrates on his opinions that basically deal with sex. Sex is a huge part of a relationship obviously. However, there are many dynamics in addition to sex and before sex. He doesn't address any of those. The guy seems shallow and bitter to me.
A friend sent me this link about a guy sharing his 25 years of dating wisdom. It's oriented toward women, but some points apply to women as well. What do you fellows think? He makes some really good points. But you can tell he's a bit bitter from divorce.
REPLY: I find number 28 (dont get involved with someone whos a born again Christian) , very interesting. I suppose instead of basing his dating life on the morals and values God instituted, he followed the out of control Cultures way and his feelings which has led to much of his emotional hurts and dismay regarding women. This is what happens when people think they know better than God and have too much pride to follow and live for God and his mandates for successful living.
Agree totally! This guy concentrates on his opinions that basically deal with sex. Sex is a huge part of a relationship obviously. However, there are many dynamics in addition to sex and before sex. He doesn't address any of those. The guy seems shallow and bitter to me.
I know of many other guys who are active daters who can vouch that the list has more truths than one may initially think. Yes, the author seems a little bitter and jaded from bad experience, but from a man's perspective, there's more truth to it than women may believe.
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Originally Posted by IbeDavid
REPLY: I find number 28 (dont get involved with someone whos a born again Christian) , very interesting. I suppose instead of basing his dating life on the morals and values God instituted, he followed the out of control Cultures way and his feelings which has led to much of his emotional hurts and dismay regarding women. This is what happens when people think they know better than God and have too much pride to follow and live for God and his mandates for successful living.
Luckily, I haven't dated w/ any religious zealots, but I know that those born-again are usually bad news (man or woman - obviously from my perspective, I can only speak from dating women). There's nothing wrong if she's religious - that's great! But it's when they push it down your throat, and worse yet, in a hypocritical manner.
I think the list is meant to be taken as part truth, part humor.
Other what's been said, women should read this list and take it into account, especially when the guy they are dating turns out to be a superficial creep.
There's nothing wrong if she's religious - that's great!
Especially is she's 16, goes to a Catholic Girl's School, and wears one of those little plaid skirts.
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Should've said "its mouth"!
