Wanting to still hang out after ending it after a few dates? (dating, women)
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I went out with a girl a few times and she said she really liked me but I wasn't into her so I ended it. But then she asked me if I still wanted to hang our or do something. She has feelings and I don't. What's up with her still wanting to hang out? Seems like an excuse to keep dating me.
I went out with a girl a few times and she said she really liked me but I wasn't into her so I ended it. But then she asked me if I still wanted to hang our or do something. She has feelings and I don't. What's up with her still wanting to hang out? Seems like an excuse to keep dating me.
You know she likes you and is probably trying to linger around in hopes you change your mind.
You know she likes you and is probably trying to linger around in hopes you change your mind.
So what are you going to do about it?
Wait to see the responses I get on here to decide. Lol. Seems pointless to me if there is no sex which is the only difference to me. It would basically be dating a girl I don't feel chemistry for but with no sex. I guess I answered my own question.
Maybe she has ulterior motives, or maybe she thought the two of you had enough in common that you could be friends. Kind of like Elaine and Jerry on Seinfeld.
Wait to see the responses I get on here to decide. Lol. Seems pointless to me if there is no sex which is the only difference to me. It would basically be dating a girl I don't feel chemistry for but with no sex. I guess I answered my own question.
You are capable of making your own decisions. Right?
If you're not into this girl and you know it's pointless....the obvious answer would be to....?
Wait to see the responses I get on here to decide. Lol. Seems pointless to me if there is no sex which is the only difference to me. It would basically be dating a girl I don't feel chemistry for but with no sex. I guess I answered my own question.
So, you're not into friendships with women? Not saying this woman would be the one to be friends with, since she's more emotionally-invested than you, but in general--no women friends? Women are useless if you can't f--- 'em?
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Originally Posted by Berteau
I went out with a girl a few times and she said she really liked me but I wasn't into her so I ended it. But then she asked me if I still wanted to hang our or do something. She has feelings and I don't. What's up with her still wanting to hang out? Seems like an excuse to keep dating me.
I think she may be lingering around to try to change your mind. I highly recommend not getting together with her since she still has feelings and hanging out with you would only intensify those and give her false hope.
I went out with a girl a few times and she said she really liked me but I wasn't into her so I ended it. But then she asked me if I still wanted to hang our or do something. She has feelings and I don't. What's up with her still wanting to hang out? Seems like an excuse to keep dating me.
Yes.
Be kind to her by not being with her. And, whatever you do, don't sleep with her in a weak moment. It will just make the situation far worse than you could possibly imagine.
So, you're not into friendships with women? Not saying this woman would be the one to be friends with, since she's more emotionally-invested than you, but in general--no women friends? Women are useless if you can't f--- 'em?
No. It's because this is a variant of the guy who keeps hanging with a woman after he has been friend zoned. Same basic thing.
If there is no romantic interest, then it's perfectly okay for men and women to be friends. But when one person has romantic interests and the other does not reciprocate, it turns into something else, a less-than-honest relationship between two people.
Seems like you either want to lead her on or get a hookup.
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