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Old 05-05-2018, 08:35 PM
 
Location: Michigan
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I don't really see a reason for this to be a problem but what do y'all think

We've been together for almost 2 years and we don't talk personally in person but rather via text. Do you think this is okay. Or do you suspect something is wrong?

Whenever we try to talk she either tells me to forget the convo ( like for example i did something wrong or she did something wrong she would rather text me about it instead) or walks away and immediately texts me.
yes, we were personal talking via the phone in the beginning.
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Old 05-05-2018, 08:37 PM
 
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Do you mean you never talk on the phone now? My first thought is she might be married, or living with someone.
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Old 05-05-2018, 09:02 PM
 
Location: Pa
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She's banging another man.
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Old 05-05-2018, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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Hang on - when you are together she doesn't talk to you?
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Old 05-05-2018, 10:13 PM
 
Location: Saint John, IN
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That's the most bizarre thing I've heard of in a long time!!
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Old 05-05-2018, 11:06 PM
 
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I don't really see a reason for this to be a problem but what do y'all think

We've been together for almost 2 years and we don't talk personally in person but rather via text. Do you think this is okay. Or do you suspect something is wrong?

Whenever we try to talk she either tells me to forget the convo ( like for example i did something wrong or she did something wrong she would rather text me about it instead) or walks away and immediately texts me.
yes, we were personal talking via the phone in the beginning.
Did something happen to make her change from wanting a regular phone conversation to mainly texting?

TBH, it's weird as heck, but if you're happy and it works for you both, then that's all that matters.
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Old 05-06-2018, 06:05 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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That’s just weird. Maybe you need to put away your phones when you’re together.
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Old 05-06-2018, 06:15 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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I don't really see a reason for this to be a problem but what do y'all think

We've been together for almost 2 years and we don't talk personally in person but rather via text. Do you think this is okay. Or do you suspect something is wrong?
How is that possible? Is that a long distance relationship, and you didn't actually met her in person?
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Old 05-06-2018, 09:21 AM
 
Location: Michigan
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Do you mean you never talk on the phone now? My first thought is she might be married, or living with someone.
We're engaged though and been engaged since the beginning of the year
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Old 05-06-2018, 09:27 AM
 
Location: Michigan
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Okay to clear things up we do live together but we got into a fight a while back about flirting ( two guys were flirting with her but she didn't let them know up front we were together. The guard told me if i could'nt handle them flirting with her i don't deserve her) After that we had arguments here and there but even in the beginning like i said she didn't talk much. I mean we would talk but as far as day to day its mostly via text. I don't have no issues with her though she's a sweetheart honestly i just thought it was weird. I think most women i meet now a days rather text than talk face to face.

After that argument she did talk to her ex who apparently wanted to talk to her for months.
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