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But I feel like, me wanting that type constantly has turned me into a shallow person when it comes to dating, as I can only get aroused by women who that that one type of fetish it seems.
Is there anything I can do to be deeper and still be attracted to a woman in the bedroom, without that? If not fine, but the fetish makes me fee shallow. But what do you think?
No not shallow. You have a psychological kink fetish for being dominating women. Idk if that's healthy or not but maybe you should see a therapist because your erectile dysfunction is mental.
As for meeting women, you can slowly introduce your fetish in the bedroom and see how it goes.
I have gotten turned on by them before, (non-aggressive women) but it took a lot more stimulation and I didn't last as long. For example, I could take up to 45 minutes of foreplay, to get turned on, and only last an hour or so, but with viagra, I can take up to two minutes of foreplay, and last hours.
Why would you think a woman has to have it last for hours? Especially if it takes you a long time to "get ready"??
This situation you described as failing, I can guarantee it's perfectly fine, even ideal, for a lot of women.
Extended foreplay and less than an hour of intercourse afterward. Have there been women in your life complaining about this?
Yeah women in the past have said that I take too long to get aroused and that one of the turn ons is how I guy is ready to have sex right then and now. And also that I am too hard to make orgasm, or take too long.
Yeah women in the past have said that I take too long to get aroused and that one of the turn ons is how I guy is ready to have sex right then and now. And also that I am too hard to make orgasm, or take too long.
Learn to make her orgasm first and how long you take wont matter.
I have gotten turned on by them before, but it took a lot more stimulation and I didn't last as long. For example, I could take up to 45 minutes of foreplay, to get turned on, and only last an hour or so, but with viagra, I can take up to two minutes of foreplay, and last hours.
So I would like to be able to have that kind of energy without it, if possible.
... and you call yourself an ironpony? lol
You are only 33, and taking Cialis for the last 10 years. Something is wrong with you. What did the doctor said? You might need some psychotherapy and counseling...
You also need to know more about protected sex. Perhaps some worries and past history are causing your problems/anxiety?
You are only 33 now, and have been taking Cialis for the last 10 years. Something is wrong with you. What did the doctor said?
Yeah, what did your doctor say? That's waaaaay too young to need Cialis, and waaaaaay too long to be abusing it.
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