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Old 06-09-2018, 08:43 AM
 
Location: ......SC
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It sounds to me like he is pushing red flags at Jade408- to see what she will tolerate. He will keep pushing his Red Flag Agenda till he gets the answers HE wants.
Yeah, kind of sounds swinger-ish to me too. Male looking for the fmf thing. New gf prob is clueless too.
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Old 06-09-2018, 06:56 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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It sounds to me like he is pushing red flags at Jade408- to see what she will tolerate. He will keep pushing his Red Flag Agenda till he gets the answers HE wants.
Yeah, kind of sounds swinger-ish to me too. Male looking for the fmf thing. New gf prob is clueless too.
I have another thought, based on another coco I had with him. Since apparently I get to learn all about his dating life. He met some other girl at the same time he met me and the girl he is dating. Bust she gave him a story about how she was really busy until early June. And he wanted to know if he should wait it out even though she didn’t seem enthusiastic. She was apparently “his ideal girl.” So maybe he is looking around for his magical unicorn.
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Old 06-10-2018, 05:15 AM
 
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I have another thought, based on another coco I had with him. Since apparently I get to learn all about his dating life. He met some other girl at the same time he met me and the girl he is dating. Bust she gave him a story about how she was really busy until early June. And he wanted to know if he should wait it out even though she didn’t seem enthusiastic. She was apparently “his ideal girl.” So maybe he is looking around for his magical unicorn.
"So maybe he is looking around for his magical unicorn"

Aren't they all? So many are wishing for the 3-somes etc...some obsess over it.
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Old 06-10-2018, 11:28 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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"So maybe he is looking around for his magical unicorn"

Aren't they all? So many are wishing for the 3-somes etc...some obsess over it.
Maybe, but most don't go about it in such an obvious fashion, kind of in-your-face about it.

This is unusual, OP. If I were you, I might start feeling kind of TMI about having a ringside seat to his dating processes.
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Old 06-11-2018, 05:03 AM
 
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It seems to me that you represent an image or ideal he wants to be associated with. As I recall you are in tech, right? So you are in an esteemed profession, upwardly mobile, you have an active social life — if he’s hanging out with you he can show his old college friend and new dates that he is in with the in crowd.
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Old 06-11-2018, 09:26 AM
 
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It seems to me that you represent an image or ideal he wants to be associated with. As I recall you are in tech, right? So you are in an esteemed profession, upwardly mobile, you have an active social life — if he’s hanging out with you he can show his old college friend and new dates that he is in with the in crowd.
There may be something to this. This has more of a potential ring of truth than the threesome theory, lol.
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Old 06-11-2018, 11:54 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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It seems to me that you represent an image or ideal he wants to be associated with. As I recall you are in tech, right? So you are in an esteemed profession, upwardly mobile, you have an active social life — if he’s hanging out with you he can show his old college friend and new dates that he is in with the in crowd.
Totally possible, but to be fair, the girl he is dating and I are somewhat similar: she also works in tech, is upwardly mobile, not sure about her social activities but....it seems like we probably also like to do the same stuff.

The college friend is also in the same vein. Basically we are all kind of the same people, lol. College friend works in finance.
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