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Old 05-19-2018, 03:01 AM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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Forget him! When a man is really into you he won't act like that!
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Old 05-19-2018, 04:42 AM
 
Location: The ghetto
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You've done nothing wrong. Don't sweat this clown. He is insincere and classless.
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Old 05-19-2018, 09:37 AM
 
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What did you do wrong?...you cared that he didn't respond and you were willing to take responsibility for his rudeness!
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Old 05-19-2018, 10:48 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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I met a guy a month ago and we spoke for two weeks.
He would text me so much.
We had our first date and it went well.
After leaving he text saying he had a amazing time,I was beautiful inside and out and he wanted to kiss me all night long.
We organised another date for the next day and once again it was really good.
Told me he was counting the minutes to the weekend to see me again.
Text me all week saying nearly the weekend to see you.
Friday he took 9 hours to reply to a text (this is a guy who texts back within minutes.
Yesterday morning he text saying morning and was I still up for the date.
I said of course and he said shall we go for a meal and drinks.
I said brilliant idea..shall we say 8?
No reply waited 7 hours and nothing.
He was active on Facebook all this time.
He was posting to his twitter etc.
No reply..got to 9pm and I sent one more text asking what was wrong.
No reply
Didn’t even read it
What the hell happened?
I think I know him.

He is a swarthy yet gentle guy who is a thoughtful conversationalist. He does tend to imbibe too many pints of dark ale if given the circumstance which leads him to become quite the frisky and aggressive chap - if you know what I mean - so his friends are aware to cut him off once he approaches the proverbial ledge.

Anyway, he has been vacationing in Cyprus to visit friends and family for a few days. As they have been relaxing and fishing in a village with poor cell coverage, he has been relatively inaccessible via phone and text. The tuna have been running in Cyprus this week as well so there's that.
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Old 05-19-2018, 10:53 AM
 
Location: Central New Jersey
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Could depend if he got what he was seeking. Your post is in detail but not detailed enough. Some guys, and I'm a guy, sweet talk and charm with one goal in mind. SEX. Many could care less of another's feelings and are only looking for some "fun". In your case I don't know if this is the scenario but if it is that could be why he is ignoring you and stood you up.
My recommendation is you move on. Good luck
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Old 05-19-2018, 05:27 PM
 
Location: Richmond VA
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It’s a good thing he showed me himself now rather than months down the line.
Plenty more fish in the sea so they say
Good for you. Some people love to feed their ego by proving to themselves that they CAN woo and win a date, but have no true interest in a relationship. They'll spin things out as long as they can. It has nothing to do with you.
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Old 05-20-2018, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Originally Posted by Kellyanne29 View Post
I met a guy a month ago and we spoke for two weeks.
He would text me so much.
We had our first date and it went well.
After leaving he text saying he had a amazing time,I was beautiful inside and out and he wanted to kiss me all night long.
We organised another date for the next day and once again it was really good.
Told me he was counting the minutes to the weekend to see me again.
Text me all week saying nearly the weekend to see you.
Friday he took 9 hours to reply to a text (this is a guy who texts back within minutes.
Yesterday morning he text saying morning and was I still up for the date.
I said of course and he said shall we go for a meal and drinks.
I said brilliant idea..shall we say 8?
No reply waited 7 hours and nothing.
He was active on Facebook all this time.
He was posting to his twitter etc.
No reply..got to 9pm and I sent one more text asking what was wrong.
No reply
Didn’t even read it
What the hell happened?
What happened is that you got lucky. Write him off. The end.
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