He stood me up and won’t reply to my text ..what have I done wrong? (dating, how to)
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I met a guy a month ago and we spoke for two weeks.
He would text me so much.
We had our first date and it went well.
After leaving he text saying he had a amazing time,I was beautiful inside and out and he wanted to kiss me all night long.
We organised another date for the next day and once again it was really good.
Told me he was counting the minutes to the weekend to see me again.
Text me all week saying nearly the weekend to see you.
Friday he took 9 hours to reply to a text (this is a guy who texts back within minutes.
Yesterday morning he text saying morning and was I still up for the date.
I said of course and he said shall we go for a meal and drinks.
I said brilliant idea..shall we say 8?
No reply waited 7 hours and nothing.
He was active on Facebook all this time.
He was posting to his twitter etc.
No reply..got to 9pm and I sent one more text asking what was wrong.
No reply
Didn’t even read it
What the hell happened?
OP - I seriously doubt that this has anything to do with you. Personally, I would move on and if he does call/text, I would tell him that his calls/texts are no longer wanted. For me, it is a huge, red flag when a guy comes on very fast in the early stages of dating. That is simply not normal.
You did nothing, OLD provides so many "options", some people don't know how to turn it off when they met someone. Just move on, trust me in a month or so you'll barely remember him.
Yes I would definitely move on. This guy's untrustworthy and if he's not responding, he's not worth it. Lose his number, now! Move on and don't look back.
Why on earth would you assume it was because of you? Do you normally take the blame for other people's rude behaviour? I'd get that checked out if I were you.
Offhand, I'd say his behavior in the beginning raises the "too much too soon" flag. He showered you with compliments after the first date, then texted daily to say he was counting the minutes to the next date (every day). That seems extreme. It doesn't sound genuine. The "too much too soon" rule says that if the compliments and other mostly verbal displays of interest and "being smitten" occur within the first days and couple of weeks of getting to know someone (premature marriage talk = another example), it's probably an act with an ulterior motive of some sort.
Some men present women with a whole song and dance from the outset, calculated to make them feel "swept off their feet". Beware of feet-sweeping by men you hardly know.
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