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Old 05-18-2018, 03:02 PM
 
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This can't possibly be a truthful statement. Because the overwhelming majority of posters here, currently, and through the years, have said very clearly that the workplace is not the place to look for romantic relationships.
I am most certain that is the case. Between Jan 2018 and Apr 2018 I compiled documents and created a large file of quoted screenshots from various web forums. I am in the office at the moment, running late, when I return home I will provide said references.
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Old 05-18-2018, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I am most certain that is the case. Between Jan 2018 and Apr 2018 I compiled documents and created a large file of quoted screenshots from various web forums. I am in the office at the moment, when I return home I will provide said references.
Get back to work while you still have a job.
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Old 05-18-2018, 03:04 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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As a colleague and superior, it is important for me to maintain correspondence with this female. I know where she parks at work. After work I will approach in a relaxed manner, and try to iron out any outstanding issues. Once we reestablish contact, perhaps I can then attempt to rebuild our relationship?
A superior? You're this woman's superior? Her boss or some sort of supervisor? Boy, are you in trouble. but keep it up. The more you push and press, the sooner she'll be rid of you.
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Old 05-18-2018, 03:05 PM
 
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A superior? You're this woman's superior? Her boss or some sort of supervisor? Boy, are you in trouble. but keep it up. The more you push and press, the sooner she'll be rid of you.
She is my superior. Which is an even better reason to build a close relationship, career advancement. I've considered all angles, and this was certainly one which I did not overlook.
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Old 05-18-2018, 03:09 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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She is my superior. Which is an even better reason to build a close relationship, career advancement. I've considered all angles, and this was certainly one which I did not overlook.
Sure, OP; charm and F your way to a promotion. Good plan. And you know, being a superior and all, she couldn't possibly figure it out. Women superiors are dumb that way, and fall for flattery and pushy approaches.

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Old 05-18-2018, 03:12 PM
 
Location: Seoul
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Sure, OP; charm and F your way to a promotion
Doesn't sound like there will be much of either going on

What are they putting in the water over there in Wisconsin? Whatever they're doing, it's making people go crazy
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Old 05-18-2018, 03:12 PM
 
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I have just taken a closer look at how our company bureaucracy functions, as it turns out, I am HER superior, but in separate departments. Perhaps I should use my position to my advantage? The cards certainly appear to be stacked in my favour in that regard.
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Old 05-18-2018, 03:18 PM
 
Location: Middle of nowhere
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I have just taken a closer look at how our company bureaucracy functions, as it turns out, I am HER superior, but in separate departments. Perhaps I should use my position to my advantage? The cards certainly appear to be stacked in my favour in that regard.
That is just screaming for a sexual harassment lawsuit. Go for it.
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Old 05-18-2018, 03:20 PM
 
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That is just screaming for a sexual harassment lawsuit. Go for it.
Not if I play my cards right.
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Old 05-18-2018, 03:20 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I have just taken a closer look at how our company bureaucracy functions, as it turns out, I am HER superior, but in separate departments. Perhaps I should use my position to my advantage? The cards certainly appear to be stacked in my favour in that regard.
Seem stacked in your favor? You mean, going by the fact that she turned you down, and another co-worker reported you, and you got chewed out by management? Yeah, looking pretty favorable. Definitely.


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