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The words should have gone in one ear and out the other. No one ordered this grown woman to even consider this. Yet we have a long post asking for advice on how to proceed.
This lady is not a victim of a "poor choice". No responsible person would have even entertained the idea in the first place.
There's not just one bad guy here.
Yes, it probably should.
But this post screams desperation. And her desire to be needed/wanted/sexually fulfilled is prevalent. She's been dealing with this issue for quite some time it appears and it is clouding her judgement and she doesn't know whether she should be selfish and agree to what her idiot husband proposes or go the other way, which is why she needed to post.
I am guessing the only reason why she is entertaining it, is to get the husband on board for her extra-marital affairs so she can seek whomever out, she please. Using the mentally, challenged "boy"as an ice breaker.
How did we get to mentally challenged or disabled?
What are 'learning difficulties'?
Dyslexia?
He's 19, is he still in school? What grade, or is it college?
Why do we assume he's interested in having sex with this woman, because he's having learning difficulties, is that it?
I can't believe the OP was so surprised by the suggestion, she's been giving ultimatums and prowling around with OLD it seems sex is her priority --so some 19 y.o. neighbor guy, sitting in her house 2 nights a week never came up on her radar?
Step 1: Get yourself dolled up.
Step 2: Drive to the nearest downtown Hilton, arriving around 7 pm
Step 3: Sit at the bar and buy a drink. And wait.
Well if she isn't getting laid with OLD, because it's filled with "morally superior" men who can't imagine it.....there's something else going on here. It's actually quite difficult to find a guy who isn't just looking for sex on POF....so....not really buying it.
Seriously? You need to ask. "He use to play with the local children but for some reason they've stopped playing with him." You really need to think this one through? There's nothing complicated. Abusing a disabled person is not complicated, it's criminal.
You married the man and he can't satisfy you. Either take your vows seriously and work through your problems or divorce the guy and start dating grown men. Don't take advantage of a disabled teen. It's disgusting!
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