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Yep. First it was going away on vacation for a couple of weeks, now it's going away to work for a few weeks. Next it will be has to go to job training out of town for a few weeks, then back to vacation or maybe helping his mom move, or a great aunt is in the hospital out of town.
Seems like he is only in town for hook ups the has to jet off again.
basically he told me this job was like a sudden proposal and he doesnt know if he will accept it and he wont if they dont have offices in london.
A situation like that is not at all uncommon or holidays for that matter.
so i cant judge from that.
but to be fair the thing about the mother did sound a bit fishy from the beginning.
But i did make my position clear about the travel. So its ok from my perspective i aint a doormat.
He had told me he wanted to see where things went between us from the beginning and he wanted to see if that will lead to something serious but he doesnt do ONS or flings.
Cypriots to be fair are generally close to family. but ye yesterday he was warm and stuff but today that i reached out not so much. But to be honest eh, he doesnt seem very available for real dating.
basically he told me this job was like a sudden proposal and he doesnt know if he will accept it and he wont if they dont have offices in london.
A situation like that is not at all uncommon or holidays for that matter.
so i cant judge from that.
but to be fair the thing about the mother did sound a bit fishy from the beginning.
But i did make my position clear about the travel. So its ok from my perspective i aint a doormat.
He had told me he wanted to see where things went between us from the beginning and he wanted to see if that will lead to something serious but he doesnt do ONS or flings.
Cypriots to be fair are generally close to family. but ye yesterday he was warm and stuff but today that i reached out not so much. But to be honest eh, he doesnt seem very available for real dating.
So I would better look at other options for now.
I wont initiate further contact with him
At least until you do and start another thread. Kind of like how you deleted his number 2 or 3 times and texted him.
You seem to thrive on drama, maybe this is a good relationship for you.
Ye but i aint naive i made my position perfectly clear on this.if he doesnt wanna date me thats fine i can find someone else.
Well you better make sure anyone else you decide to date can also "break the bed" otherwise you're gonna keep going back to this guy. Or at least pining for him.
If it's all 'no biggie' why was your first post all about wanting to know whether or not he was serious?
Not to mention hundreds of posts with all the drama,following? Including whether or not he's married, when it appears you didn't even really give a crap?
But anyway if he doesnt invite me to his house i will say to him i do't trust him and. I don't wanna continue.Simple
In all fairness to his wife (if he has one), you should have found out if he was married before you had sex w/ him. You said as far as you know he wasn't married, why didn't you flat out ask him?
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Originally Posted by Chrisaki
I think to determine if u are compatible.with someone you need to see if u match intellectually and physically last time i checked
In all fairness to his wife (if he has one), you should have found out if he was married before you had sex w/ him. You said as far as you know he wasn't married, why didn't you flat out ask him?
Why is it her issue if it turns out he is married? It's not like she's trying for a committed long term relationship.
Why is it her issue if it turns out he is married? It's not like she's trying for a committed long term relationship.
I'd want to know if someone was married because I'm not interested in being anyone's side piece.
Also OP has indicated she does want a serious relationship.
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