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Old 07-02-2009, 10:28 PM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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Originally Posted by yankeegirl313 View Post
Although...this is an old thread, brought up, by a newbie....my advice would be, that if you knew he smoked when you got together...deal with it!
She DIDN'T know... that's the point
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Old 07-02-2009, 10:31 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I love my husband and yes he did smoke when we got married. I don't think that should be the decision whether or not to be with someone. I am supportive of him quiting. He tried Chantix and it worked for a little bit, but after 2 months he stopped using it b/c he said it made him nauseous. I was trying to find a way to approach him not to do it before we plan on being close.
Mearth...newbie....lol...Obviously, your wrong! lol....
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Old 07-02-2009, 10:32 PM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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Obviously....your wrong!
Obviously... you're completely insensitive.

Not to mention unaware of spelling and grammatical rules.
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Old 07-02-2009, 10:41 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Obviously... you're completely insensitive.

Not to mention unaware of spelling and grammatical rules.
So...are you the new grammar teacher around here now? We don`t usually get down on anyone, for their spelling grammar, Mrs. Priss!
You must have us mistaken, for your other forum threads... geezzz ussss.....

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Old 07-02-2009, 10:48 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Obviously... you're completely insensitive.
I`m insensitive huh? She knew that he smoked, before.... whats your problem?
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Old 07-02-2009, 11:01 PM
 
Location: Delaware...Oi
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I`m insensitive huh? She knew that he smoked, before.... whats your problem?
There are degrees however, you could be under the impression it's just a few times a day thing, then have it chained just a bit down the road.

It is kind of ridiculous at my parents house, the enclosed porch during the waning hours when the sunlight is shining through it's got that laser-beam/church window pane beam thing going on due to the smoke in the room.

Frankly, as much as it's demonized, if your lucky enough to not let it become an addiction or only be a minor one, it really isn't going to effect much of squat. So you die of that heart attack 5 months earlier at 89, big whoop. However, downing more than a few on average per day, ya, lucky to see a 60th birthday, insanely lucky to see a social security payment.
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Old 07-02-2009, 11:02 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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My beautiful beloved Barb was diagnosed with lung cancer, then it spread- brain cancer. My beloved Barb passed on March,2006.
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Old 07-02-2009, 11:04 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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My beautiful beloved Barb was diagnosed with lung cancer, then it spread- brain cancer. My beloved Barb passed on March,2006.
Look, Hawk, that's not the first time you're doing this. While I'm sorry for the loss of your wife, her death has zero to do with this thread.
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Old 07-02-2009, 11:08 PM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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Look, Hawk, that's not the first time you're doing this. While I'm sorry for the loss of your wife, her death has zero to do with this thread.
More insensitivity. Wow.
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Old 07-02-2009, 11:09 PM
 
Location: James Island, SC
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I`m insensitive huh? She knew that he smoked, before.... whats your problem?
I wasn't talking about the OP, I was talking to a more recent poster. That person did NOT know - he hid it from her until they got married.

You'd know that if you actually read my initial post - wherein I QUOTED that post.
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