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I'm only secure with a good woman. If I felt any doubt whatsoever about her, there's no way I'm giving out cards with PIN numbers. As mention up-thread - if you cant trust a loving partner over the course of two years or more, then you should reconsider the relatioship. Of course, my opinions are my own.
I agree with your opinion.
Honestly I sometimes give my bank card to coworkers to go pick up our lunch. Some even have a questionable past and never once has my account been compromised.if you have faith in someone they just might do the right thing
Nope, it is because most of us were born in one day, NOT yesterday.
You have trust issues stemming from your childhood that you really should seek help with, as no woman on the earth will be able to climb the walls you build
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You have trust issues stemming from your childhood that you really should seek help with, as no woman on the earth will be able to climb the walls you build
I'm not the one engaged to a guy who outearns me but leaves me with most the bills. Clean your own house before you try and pull up on someone else.
Honestly I sometimes give my bank card to coworkers to go pick up our lunch. Some even have a questionable past and never once has my account been compromised.if you have faith in someone they just might do the right thing
Why would you even get financially tangled up with this guy when you posted this last month:
I just got engaged in March, which he has since admitted was because I was open with my timeline from the beginning and said I would not date past 2 years without an engagement. He proposed 2 weeks before the 2 year mark. He is now delaying setting an actual wedding date and asking what is the hurry. The lesson learned is that I should have made the timeline of marriage known, not just the engagement.
Why would you even get financially tangled up with this guy when you posted this last month:
I just got engaged in March, which he has since admitted was because I was open with my timeline from the beginning and said I would not date past 2 years without an engagement. He proposed 2 weeks before the 2 year mark. He is now delaying setting an actual wedding date and asking what is the hurry. The lesson learned is that I should have made the timeline of marriage known, not just the engagement.
Your desperation is painfully obvious.
This. ^^^
IMO, you focus too much on getting married, rather than taking your time and finding a man that you're actually compatible with overall. It's a case of putting the cart before the horse here.
I doubt many men want to feel like they're being hunted down for that elusive gold ring. You might have better luck at finding a decent guy if you changed your priorities.
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Clean your own house before you try and pull up on someone else. 
