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One time we were out having a drink and some guy kept pestering Mrs. Chow and after a couple of times of him asking for her name I told him not to worry about what her name is. Luckily he shut up and didn't press the issue. I'm not a tough guy a all, but where I come from you say something to a guy you had better be ready to throw down. You can't bluff with some guys because there are always some guys that are crazier than you are.
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There's a topic about a waitress body slaming a guy that grabbed her butt, it got me thinking, what would you guys do if you saw a guy grab your woman's rear or the like? Beat him up?
Getting both of us away from the situation and home alive would be priority #1. I'm from the hood and confronting and picking a fight with entitled aggressive monsters like this usually ends with people getting shot and/or murdered. I think this is a situation where you have a choice of being right or being alive.
If I was there and witnessed it, then I would fight the guy. If you do nothing then you appear like a coward. There’s also the fact that the guy felt comfortable enough to do it in front of me which would anger me even more.
You're assuming he knew you and she were together. What if you were waiting at a table for her, and she walked in the door and started looking around, and some scheme grabs her as he passes by? If you're sitting in the corner, he wouldn't have any idea she wasn't alone.
I'm not sure why, but I'd rather my guy did something about it. At least said something anyway --instead of just leaving me to fend for myself... seriously someone disrespects your girl, and you just pretend it didn't happen?
Its the best way not to get beat up, killed or sent to jail and face a court appearance.
I know what you mean, but two wrongs don't make a right.
We are only entitled to use enough force to deflect a blow. Anything more is an assault as well.
In places where alcohol is served, things can get out of hand amazingly fast.
Egos can need to push an envelope that should never travel so far.
If no good is going to come of it, and more harm can come than good, what's the point?
You're assuming he knew you and she were together. What if you were waiting at a table for her, and she walked in the door and started looking around, and some scheme grabs her as he passes by? If you're sitting in the corner, he wouldn't have any idea she wasn't alone.
That’s a little different, but I would still confront him. Doing absolutely nothing about it isn’t really an option in my eyes. Groping someone who didn’t ask for it is pretty unacceptable, regardless if you knew if they were taken or not.
That’s a little different, but I would still confront him. Doing absolutely nothing about it isn’t really an option in my eyes. Groping someone who didn’t ask for it is pretty unacceptable, regardless if you knew if they were taken or not.
Of course it's unacceptable, but things can get out of hand, especially if alcohol is involved. People can get klled and someone can wind up in jail. Many things can happen.
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"Excuse me that's my girlfriend."
"Hey, hands off, that's my wife."
To stand there and pretend it's not happening to the woman you're with? Assault?
The video showed the guy putting his hand right between the ladies legs, from the back.
...and if it was if it was your daughter?A guy wouldn't want to cause a commotion either? Might get in trouble defending d
Someone?
...wow unreal.
That is exactly why I'd be hesitant to start a confrontation. I need to be on this Earth to protect them from legitimate danger and I can't do that from the county jail or in a coffin.
That is exactly why I'd be hesitant to start a confrontation. I need to be on this Earth to protect them from legitimate danger and I can't do that from the county jail or in a coffin.
You can't protect anybody if you go home alone either, know what I mean
Some women would seriously walk away from that display. Or non-display I should say.
My fiancee is 6'1", good luck. I'll get the popcorn.
Personally, I would not get involved. No stern look, no fight, no fisticuffs. People in this word are crazy, have nothing to lose, and they want to fight over everything. Not me. I'm not fighting everyone who does something like this. What if they look like Dwayne Johnson? Then what? I'm not risking my career and freedom over it. Yeah that's just what I need, a criminal record for felony assault.
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