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If someone did that to my wife he'd probably rather deal with me than her. She's scrappy and quick tempered. It would take me a minute to get into "fight" mode, but either way it wouldn't go unsettled.
He’s not obligated to do anything illegal that doesn’t involve self-defense or life threatening measures
No, he is not "obligated." I never said he was. Which you'd know if you'd read my posts instead of getting defensive and reactionary.
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Originally Posted by Rocko20
So you’re hoping your SO will “do something” but youre afraid slapping a groper in the face will be prosecuted to the full extent of the law
Perhaps we can hear what your SO other thinks in that you’re hoping he “does something.”
I said what that "something" was (BTW, "do something" were *the OP's* words originally, a fact which you'd know if you'd read his post instead of getting defensive and reactionary).
I can't see a point to continuing to answer your questions which show you're clearly either thinking I'm some other poster on this thread, or simply that you're trying to be deliberately obtuse (sorry to put it that way but I can't think of a closer description). It's just becoming nonsensical, since you're "fighting" with me about things I never even said. You're arguing against things I'd argue against too. Like the beating up thing...obligation... I'm sorry, there's really nothing more to say. Hope you get whatever answers you're looking for.
If the guy is physically touching/grabbing me and I'm having difficulties getting him off of me, I would think any man I'm with would help me out. However if he's just trying to make a pass at me and is blatantly ignoring the fact that I'm with another man, I'd check him myself or we would both leave the situation. I think people should choose their battles wisely. In situations like the latter one I mentioned, I don't think it's the spouse's job to check someone who's trying to get with you. You should let them know what's up yourself. Otherwise, the spouse could end up looking jealous, possessive, etc.
The fact that my point on demographics was pretty much ignored tells my all I need to know about how ridiculous this thread is and continues to be.
This thread is silly because people can say one thing and do another. Loosely speaking women tend to think that you can confront people and not have violence... just loosely speaking so please... let's chill on the reps...
Men tend to know that if you confront a dude you have to be prepared to throw down. I come from a background of expecting to go fist to cuff. I ain't tough, made that clear... but you can't just call a dude out without expecting a dude to go there.
I already said in this thread that I confronted a guy who was pestering Ms. Chow. Just for her name... if some dude had grabbed her ass I'd most certainly would have gotten in his face.. and most certainly would have faced getting my assed kicked... it happens but I would have done it... heck I did it just because some guy was bugging her for her name.
I'm not a candy ass, I'm not a tough guy... I just think that most women and some men here don't really realize what getting in mans face encompasses...
You best be ready to put up or shut the F up... and you best be ready to get your ass tuned up... because where I come from you can't get in a man's grill without getting some action....
Maybe these chads around here can,,,, but not me... LOL...
It may be silly, but people prattling on without a sense of how the world really works, IS how the world really works.
Yes, suburban moms and soccer dads don't know how the world really works....
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