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Old 07-23-2018, 10:41 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Really no idea what is the special thing in them that makes them appealing to men ? that is a million dollar question to me.

And on the other hand woman like me seldon get noticed ...
Confidence plus somewhat good looks plus choice of clothes. Long Hair usually helps.


Being blonde and not ugly is enough for many men. I've been blonde for a short time in my life (doesn't go with my skin tone) and was surprised how many more guys hit on me.
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Old 07-23-2018, 10:41 AM
 
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Really no idea what is the special thing in them that makes them appealing to men ? that is a million dollar question to me.

And on the other hand woman like me seldon get noticed ...
Are you in Singapore?

In countries like USA the dating game is a lot more skewed for women.
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Old 07-23-2018, 10:45 AM
 
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Show more boobs - boobs are magnetic to most men. But you'll attract a lot of men you do not want to attract. It can give you a boost of confidence though to be noticed by so many.
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Old 07-23-2018, 10:48 AM
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Really no idea what is the special thing in them that makes them appealing to men ? that is a million dollar question to me.

And on the other hand woman like me seldon get noticed ...
From a purely biological standpoint, men inherently look for 'fertility' status in women. This has to do with our inherent compulsion to reproduce according to our primary directive to survive. 'Fertility' status is signaled by health. This is why men are attracted to women who have symmetrical features and certain curves that suggest the woman would be a capable child bearer. These symmetrical features are what society deems as objectively, physically attractive characteristics.
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Old 07-23-2018, 10:59 AM
 
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Show more boobs - boobs are magnetic to most men. But you'll attract a lot of men you do not want to attract. It can give you a boost of confidence though to be noticed by so many.

As well as legs. Wear a short, elegant skirt or dress...
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Old 07-23-2018, 11:19 AM
 
Location: Glasgow Scotland
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As well as legs. Wear a short, elegant skirt or dress...
show your boobs and flash your pins. oh that ll bring in some decent men..
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Old 07-23-2018, 11:25 AM
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show your boobs and flash your pins. oh that ll bring in some decent men..
It certainly wouldn't draw me in. Then again, I'm not into sexually overt attempts at garnering attention. I'll take subtle every time. Of course, society dictates what is deemed as proper and acceptable in terms of how we display ourselves publicly. And we live in a society that deems it acceptable to reveal as much of your body as you want, within the confines of the law.
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Old 07-23-2018, 11:27 AM
 
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I think the main ingredient is a friendly, warm, welcoming personality. My wife is like that. Strangers, men, women, children, are always talking to her in the super market. I met her on a crowded subway. There was just something welcoming and approachable about her.
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Old 07-23-2018, 11:29 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Show more boobs - boobs are magnetic to most men. But you'll attract a lot of men you do not want to attract. It can give you a boost of confidence though to be noticed by so many.
I do not show off cleavage very often, but recently I was dressed up for a formal event and the dress I rented was a bit too small in the bust so I had a lot of cleavage. It was such an interesting experience to have so much on display - even for a short while. I felt lots of extra eyes on me and more greetings than usual.
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Old 07-23-2018, 11:32 AM
 
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In looking at the OPs past posts, she is absolutely fixated, desperately, wanting a relationship. Its hard to tell if she even has any interests outside of looking for a man. I dont know how she thinks anyone will have any interest in her, if she doesnt have any interests other than finding a man.
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