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Old 08-06-2018, 02:41 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Thanks guy,

I just care about him so much.
There is so much I could do hurt or expose him
But I don’t want to do that to him or anyone else for that matter .
I can’t tell him I tricked him online that will humiliate so much and I don’t that on him.
He's obviously not worried about humiliating you.
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Old 08-06-2018, 02:42 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Thanks guy,

I just care about him so much.
There is so much I could do hurt or expose him
But I don’t want to do that to him or anyone else for that matter .
I can’t tell him I tricked him online that will humiliate so much and I don’t that on him.
Why? He has ZERO respect for you. ZERO. He doesn't give a crap about you. NONE. I would humiliate the crap out of him because he did that to you.


Just imagine your single friends/neighbor/relative goes online seeing your bf there. Isn' that humiliating to you?


I think you are in denial and in shock. I hope you wake up soon and get angry enough to freaking dump that scum.
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Old 08-06-2018, 02:49 PM
 
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I know I know I should ��

But I can’t
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Old 08-06-2018, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I know I know I should ��

But I can’t
Oh well.

That sucks that you have to share him, knowing he doesn't actually love you and wondering if you will catch an STD.
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Old 08-06-2018, 02:56 PM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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I know I know I should ��

But I can’t
Then just accept being the side chick, or the stand by. It works for some people.
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Old 08-06-2018, 03:13 PM
 
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I know I know I should ��

But I can’t
Yes, you can. You are in charge of your own life. No one else is. Make smart choices. Life is short.

Use condoms, whatever you do. Not only do you not want a sexually transmitted disease, you certainly don't want an unplanned pregnancy with someone who is so unfaithful and untrustworthy.

Look in a mirror and realize that you deserve a lot more than what you're getting. Think highly of yourself. He will get worse. And it will hurt your heart.
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Old 08-06-2018, 03:18 PM
 
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We have been “together” 1 year and 7 months now.

Lately it seem we were getting closer and connecting even better.

We are seeing each other more offern.
Talking about the future even more.

We spoke about exclusivity within the first 6 months and he said he wanted relationship and labelled us as GF/Bf.

To discover this has been shocking and confusing. Just unexpected.
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Old 08-06-2018, 03:19 PM
 
Location: ......SC
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Gemma- I am married to one of those men. He is sitting right here next to me actively on a dating site. He has no shame. As for me, I am trying to get out of this situation. Get employed. Get a place to move into.
Things will NEVER get better for you Gemma. He is just using you. Exposing you to STD'S. Dis-respecting you. Is this what you really want? He obviously doesn't love you.
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Old 08-06-2018, 03:48 PM
 
Location: Where the sun always shines
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Oh my God the paranoia is already kicking in.



I am having all these negative thoughts about him. I don’t think I can have healthy relationship with him anymore.
Ya THINK!!!
Babe, your relationship is done. I don't know how you didn't blow the whistle during the number exchange.
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Old 08-06-2018, 03:59 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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We have been “together” 1 year and 7 months now.

Lately it seem we were getting closer and connecting even better.

We are seeing each other more offern.
Talking about the future even more.

We spoke about exclusivity within the first 6 months and he said he wanted relationship and labelled us as GF/Bf.

To discover this has been shocking and confusing. Just unexpected.
You need to put on your big girl pants and confront him. And gain some self-respect.

Who cares how you found out.
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