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This was a long time ago, before OLD. We had an on & off relationship, mostly because of his need to be possessive & his jealousy. Hint - people who act this way are usually doing it themselves.
But, I loved him & always came back. Know what the final clincher was? Yes, you guessed it. A std from whomever he was seeing. That's what it took for me to finally break free.
You gotta grow a backbone here and dump this loser. His behavior is completely unacceptable and you deserve someone who treats you properly and is thankful to be with you!
Lately it seem we were getting closer and connecting even better.
We are seeing each other more offern.
Talking about the future even more.
We spoke about exclusivity within the first 6 months and he said he wanted relationship and labelled us as GF/Bf.
To discover this has been shocking and confusing. Just unexpected.
He is cheating on you and you caught him. If you put up with this now you will put up with it forever. It’s your life and your call but no one should put up with being deceived and betrayed. There is also the safety issue here, promiscuous people possibly may have STDs. Keep that in mind.
he is cheating on you and you caught him. If you put up with this now you will put up with it forever. It’s your life and your call but no one should put up with being deceived and betrayed. There is also the safety issue here, promiscuous people possibly may have stds. Keep that in mind.
I had a gf who cheated on me. I turned the tables around and found a new gf. She didn't like it so much! Funny that - it was Ok for her to do it to me.
It was rather cruel of me what I did but I was so angry!
OP, you know what you need to do. It's not easy, I know, but you really need to find someone who cares about you and makes you the one and only number one.
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Play this out and meet him for drinks.
Yup.
Have a song on your phone that you can play as you approach him. A good one would be this one which is so old he would never have heard it before. (Amazing what one can find on the net)
I can totally sympathize with you. You can't now. Not today maybe. But I think it's inevitable. It's going to be hard to be with him, and it will all chip away at your trust, and then you're going to realize that, on that big giant scale...it's tipping more and more towards "I'm so unhappy with this man" and you'll find that you have to break up with him.
Time to admit, he's just dating you till someone better comes along.
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