Looks like he have met someone from the app (how to, call, feeling)

[Gemma25]

So clearly I didn’t do anything about finding out my BF (don’t even know if I should call him that anymore) was using POF.
For awhile he has not been on the app.
He has been contacting me but have been avoiding him
Up until yesterday.

All this time he has not Asked to see me.

It’s going to be almost over a weeks since We seen each other.
It’s Friday nigh and he hasn’t asked what I am up to.

I am feeling unwanted and very comfortable with the situation.
I am hurting, I can feel the pain now.

I should’ve confront him or let him the day I found out.


I was feeling very Anxious today so messaged him online.

Saying “hello, it was nice talking to him so wondered if he had met someone yet”

But because he hasn’t been on the app he has not reply.

[hawaiiancoconut]

Hes been contacting you but you've been avoiding him, and now you're hurt because he hasn't contacted you, making you feel unwanted?

What kind of silly games are you playing?, Lol

[elnina]

Confronting him about what? Remember, on another thread you said you were reading but not responding to his txt, then you stopped reading them at all. So, what did you expect? He moved on tired of your games.
You need to take a break and learn how to care and play fair, or every relationship will end like this.

[Gemma25]

Yes I did avoided him for awhile.

But he is contacting me everyday.
But he is not asking to see me. And that makes me believe he must have met someone.

Me avoiding him, it might seem like stupid games to some but
That was me trying to see if he would give up easily or not.

I do care for him, too much actually hence why I have not said anything about his online activities.

[BirdieBelle]

You can’t be in any relationship if you can’t be honest.

Now you are being dishonest too.

[Gemma25]

Well I wouldn’t call it dishonest.
Just keeping certain information that I found out from him.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Gemma25

Well I wouldn’t call it dishonest.
Just keeping certain information that I found out from him.

You need to grow up, hun. Take control of your own life.

[timberline742]

Wow, you are quite the emotional and mental game player!

[oh-eve]

You officially lost my sympathy now.


You two game players deserve each other.

[DontH8Me]

Originally Posted by Gemma25

Yes I did avoided him for awhile.

But he is contacting me everyday.
But he is not asking to see me. And that makes me believe he must have met someone.

Me avoiding him, it might seem like stupid games to some but
That was me trying to see if he would give up easily or not.

I do care for him, too much actually hence why I have not said anything about his online activities.

That was you being manipulative and juvenile. How old are you?