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Old 09-02-2018, 04:01 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Yes, be open, laugh at their dumbass jokes, let them think that you think they are smart and let mother nature take over.
You know the dealio when it comes to us guys, Lol.

If in doubt in what to say, srjth, send nudes!
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Old 09-02-2018, 04:30 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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How would you want a woman that you do not know to approach you on Facebook? What does she need to say?
Do you have mutual friends?
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Old 09-02-2018, 04:31 PM
 
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Do you have mutual friends?

Nope.
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Old 09-02-2018, 04:32 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Nope.
Then I would not bother.
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Old 09-02-2018, 04:42 PM
 
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Then I would not bother.

Why not?
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Old 09-02-2018, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Why not?
1) Because you are a literal stranger to him, no different than anyone walking up to him on the street.

2) If you aren't FB friends and you don't have mutual friends, your message will not go to his Messages file but will be unseen as a "Message Request," which he may not even see unless he intentionally goes to that file and looks.

This kind of thing works best if you have mutual friends so you can at least have a frame of reference to start with. Otherwise, what, "You look cute in your profile pic..."?
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Old 09-02-2018, 04:57 PM
 
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1) Because you are a literal stranger to him, no different than anyone walking up to him on the street.

2) If you aren't FB friends and you don't have mutual friends, your message will not go to his Messages file but will be unseen as a "Message Request," which he may not even see unless he intentionally goes to that file and looks.

This kind of thing works best if you have mutual friends so you can at least have a frame of reference to start with. Otherwise, what, "You look cute in your profile pic..."?
Yeah, it already went like that. lol
He said Thank you with lots of gratitude emoji's.
Now I don't know what to say next. I don't even know if he's single.

If this were OLD I would know what to say, but it's not.
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Old 09-02-2018, 05:01 PM
 
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That's for kids (IMO). Unless you already know him in some way I wouldn't do this, personally.
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Old 09-02-2018, 05:03 PM
 
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That's for kids (IMO). Unless you already know him in some way I wouldn't do this, personally.
Yeah the guys here aren't really helping. I guess it's a bad idea.
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Old 09-02-2018, 05:05 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yeah, it already went like that. lol
He said Thank you with lots of gratitude emoji's.
Now I don't know what to say next. I don't even know if he's single.

If this were OLD I would know what to say, but it's not.
Mod cut., so did you actually tell him he's cute??

Last edited by PJSaturn; 09-02-2018 at 11:50 PM.. Reason: Inappropriate language.
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