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Well, you all may have remembered that I had a 2nd date, confirmed for tomorrow with a woman I Had a nice time with last week. Well, she cancelled it today for some guy she was trying to "work things out with". Sadly, he lives in another country, Canada.
She met him on an online dating site, flew up to see him once, but he was suffering some kind of depression, so she ended it.
Out of the blue she cancelled out date because she wanted to work on things with him, and "He would feel uncomfortable with her and I 'hanging out'".
As if he really gives a rats ass about what's going on with her on the other side of the country?
Anyways, I told her that it's a pretty crappy thing to do, but wished her luck (on the guy that's suffering from depression).
I mean, I can see it being local, but in a friggin' another country?
Usually I don't get that ticked off about it. But The thing that's all ironic about it is did away with online dating, and here's her. I woman I've known in real life from social circles, met her the organic way...and here she's is, pining for unobtainable guy in another country. I mean, she'll take an online option over a local, real life option?
Priorities man.
Deciding to pursue a guy in another country with mental health issues doesn’t sound wise. She probably just likes the idea of who she’s made him out to be in her head. Maybe she doesn’t want a guy who’s actually available to her. Some people are like that.
We know each other from the past. Through older social circles. So it wasn't like it was an online date. it just irked me that she told me that she ended things with him, due to his depression, and we were just talking about how we kept meeting people with mental issues. I noted the irony of her going back to the guy who lives far far away. You cannot even call that a relationship.
I'm curious how invested she is with THIS guy that she met online only once. She probably is more familiar with me, than she is with him.
The fact that you have known each other for some time puts an entirely different slant on the tips thread. There, people piled on about the woman meeting you, her date, for the very first time, but bossing you around. And you did not correct a single soul.
Because of that, as well as your constant "isn't this woman crazy for absolutely no reason?" threads, woman after woman after woman, I'm going to assume you're not being wholly honest here either, and on that note I am out. Good luck. : )
The fact that you have known each other for some time, enough that she feels very familiar with you, puts an entirely different slant on the tips thread. There, people piled on about the woman meeting you, her date, for the very first time, but bossing you around. And you did not correct a single soul.
I can't think of what to say except... yeah. I think that may be endemic to CDR.
I don't. If I did I wouldn't be here. There would be no point.
ThisTown, if you want real answers you need to ask real questions, so what is the whole story? Or, or you are simply disappointed because you liked this woman but she didn't choose you, and now you need support, or just because nothing seems to be panning out with all these women you mention, say that. Otherwise, we're all just piling on this woman and guessing, and how is that helping you?
The fact that you have known each other for some time puts an entirely different slant on the tips thread. There, people piled on about the woman meeting you, her date, for the very first time, but bossing you around. And you did not correct a single soul.
Because of that, as well as your constant "isn't this woman crazy for absolutely no reason?" threads, woman after woman after woman, I'm going to assume you're not being wholly honest here either, and on that note I am out. Good luck. : )
I don't. How is it I'm not being honest? Also, what correction are you referring to? How is me having known her in the past have to do with anything? We weren't close buddies, but more casual acquaintences at previous social gatherings like board game night and out door related activities. Even took a weekend long trip to a beach group outing.
I mean, excuse me for not providing the details on her back story. But we weren't THAT tight. Just acquaintances that have spoken casually at events years ago and just reconnecting. I thought I may have mentioned that.
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