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Shortly thereafter she unfollows me on IG, which is weird considering she is the one who rejected me in a sense, and then proceeds to remove me / block me in a sense.
It is funny but also illogical and frustrating at the same sense. I met her out one night and we hit it off. Decided to go on a date a few days later which lasted several hours. We then proceeded with a few more dates up until yesterday afternoon after we went on a hike.
So she texts me and tells me she thought about it and felt we didn't have a romantic connection (despite us kissing many times and touching + compliments etc) but wanted to be friends. I told her straight up and honestly I wanted to explore things more romantically and if she changes her mind hit me up. I kept it light and playful
Then I see the whole IG stuff which I would think a person who was rejected would do.
Maybe because I didn't accept her counter offer. It didn't really make much sense lol. Weird or am I overthinking?
I wouldn't call it weird exactly. You want a romantic thing, she just wants to stay friends. Your wants are not compatible. She decided to end contact.
Yeah she could have kept the social media connections but what's the point? So she could send you mixed singles, and you could just ask her out again down the line? Any contact she has with you from this point on can end up as inadvertently leading you on.
You told her you didn't want to be her friend. So she removed herself from your friend lists. Am I missing something here?
Social media adds a level of awkwardness to communication nowadays to say the least.
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I wouldn't call it weird exactly. You want a romantic thing, she just wants to stay friends. Your wants are not compatible. She decided to end contact.
Yeah she could have kept the social media connections but what's the point? So she could send you mixed singles, and you could just ask her out again down the line? Any contact she has with you from this point on can end up as inadvertently leading you on.
It seems dramatic but it makes sense in a way.
Yeah throughout these past few weeks she's texting me with kissy faces, being funny, we are having a good time and spending hours together. I've kissed her too.
It's just, yes, dramatic in a sense. Most of the time if a girl is into me and I'm not feeling it I just cease contact. Some are on my social media but I'm simply cordial to them and don't pursue or mix signals.
Yeah throughout these past few weeks she's texting me with kissy faces, being funny, we are having a good time and spending hours together. I've kissed her too.
Yeah but that's a whole different issue. That's why you thought there was a romantic connection understandibly. But you were wrong.
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It's just, yes, dramatic in a sense. Most of the time if a girl is into me and I'm not feeling it I just cease contact. [/b] Some are on my social media but I'm simply cordial to them and don't pursue or mix signals.
That's exactly what she's doing, just openly instead of ghosting you.
She also might be uncomfortable, OP, knowing you have feelings for her but you'll see her IG, including if/when she finds somebody. Maybe she's trying to spare your feelings.
I just feel like little things like this....don't need any analysis or discussion because it's not going to change anything. You and that person are not in contact anymore. The only person who truly knows what's going on inside her head, is her. Don't get all preoccupied with "Why?" Because at the end of the day....it's over.
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