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There's this girl at work that I like and I know she likes me as well. Her friends have told me that she likes me and I can also tell by how she acts around me. I'll always catch her staring at me and looking away quickly and she always seems to go out of her way to talk to me around work.
I hate to admit this, but I eavesdropped on a conversation between my crush and her friend and I overheard my crush saying that she's planning on asking me to be her date to her sister's wedding. I didn't hear when exactly the wedding was, but I was still excited to hear her say this when I eavesdropped last week.
But today I was talking with her and she said that she's planning on enlisting in the Air Force. I found that to be contradictory to the fact that she apparently likes me and wants me to be her date to a wedding. She said that she's already been disqualified from the army for a medical condition and she's not positive that the Air Force will accept her either, but she wants to at least try since she has the opportunity.
I'm confused by this girl's motivations. If she really liked me and wanted the chance to date me, then why would she be enlisting to join the military? Why does she continue to act flirty around me when she knows that she could be going overseas soon? I'm so confused. Am I just over-thinking it? Is this girl just a giant tease? What's going on?
Does she have to have cleared the next 10 years of her life just for you to even go out with her? There's no guarantee you'll even get along!
I really don't like that you call her a big tease - if you think so badly of her when for all you know you're completely mistaken about what's going on with your overheard conversations then just forget her. Otherwise, ask her out yourself. Geez....guys are total wimps these days. Be sure you're gonna be in the area for the next 10 years or YOU'LL be a big tease! Girls really hate p***y teases, too.
I'm just confused by her. One minute she's planning on asking me out, the next she's planning on leaving the country. It makes me think that she never liked me to begin with.
She can have a crush on you, but she can still think about her long term future. A crush and a "maybe" date do not equate to a relationship.
It's also possible that she just wants a date to her sister's wedding and you seem like you would be fun. Nothing wrong with that. Really, she's not planning on having your babies. It's a crush.
But why? If she might be going overseas then I don't see the point in starting a relationship.
Chicken. You don’t anything for sure. What’s wrong with a few dates? Anything can happen.
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Girls really hate p***y teases, too.
