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Old 09-18-2018, 10:49 PM
 
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I was on here a while ago and people were saying he didn’t love me because he was still in contact with his ex but today while we’re out celebrating our year anniversary he proposed. Those messages really didn’t mean a thing.

Does any of this really mean anything to him?

https://instagram.com/p/Bn4626dATAB/
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Old 09-18-2018, 11:02 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Cool. Good for you. But I don't know what you're telling us for. Did you really make an Instagram page just to show your ring? You don't have to prove anything to us. Go be with your "fiance."


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Old 09-18-2018, 11:03 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Wow, look at that! I'm sure you're happy.

So what did his ex say when he told her?
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Old 09-19-2018, 08:13 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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My boyfriend left his ex to be with me going on a year ago in October and a while ago he was still texting her, being flirty trying to have sex with her but, that was a month ago. The argument we had yesterday wasn’t over her or about her, we argue a lot. We also live together. After our argument we were talking to each other through text and he told me he was gonna get our initials tattooed on him and that he doesn’t care about how much we argue because he wants me In his life and he loves me. I believe he loves me more than he ever loved his ex. He never tattooed her name, my friends believe it’s just a trap.

So less than two months ago he tried to have sex with the ex, you argue a lot and now he proposed to you?


Uhm. Okay.
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Old 09-19-2018, 08:15 AM
 
Location: St Augustine
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The fact that he proposed doesn't mean a thing. My older brother proposed to his now wife and still was cheating on her....well he still is...if it has a hole and moving , he is hitting it. Roll a donut past him and he will jump on it.

My point OP is a ring doesn't mean he isn't cheating, it is just a ring, but hey, good luck.
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Old 09-19-2018, 08:44 AM
 
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I was on here a while ago and people were saying he didn’t love me because he was still in contact with his ex but today while we’re out celebrating our year anniversary he proposed. Those messages really didn’t mean a thing.

Does any of this really mean anything to him?

https://instagram.com/p/Bn4626dATAB/


If someone is still in contact with their ex...well there better be a child in the equation for him/her to still be in contact.That would make sense.The fact that someone gives you a ring and they were still in contact with an ex and they don't have any kids together...that's a red flag.
I found out that when my ex-husband called me awhile back...he was married WITH a child on the way..yeah..so how freaking wrong was that!!! I bet the wife doesn't know to this day.Oh and we don't have any kids together.
You guys who choose to ignore your instinct because you want to be so much in a relationship...well you get what you get in the end.
This relationship will not end well.It's better to end it before you get married and then have to get a divorce afterwards.It's very disrespectful to be in touch with an ex...unless it's for communicating if there are kids involved.If not...you need to bail BUT since he proposed to you...you think everything is going well.
Well good luck with all of that.
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Old 09-19-2018, 08:46 AM
 
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This is a classic case of someone thinking that marriage will change the fighting and the dynamics of a relationship. It won't. I don't get why it's ok he tried to sleep with someone else, just because he gave you a ring.


You will be back on here in a few years, complaining but then stuck in a marriage with kids.


But good luck to you.
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Old 09-19-2018, 08:53 AM
 
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Good luck with that.
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Old 09-19-2018, 09:31 AM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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Sometimes I feel I can get the entire story just from the headline. It's interesting to me that instead of saying, "I got the guy," the OP says, "I got the ring."
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Old 09-19-2018, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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He left his GF for you, you're together for less than a year, you argue a lot, one month ago he was trying to get his ex to holla back - Sorry, that ring doesn't mean a thing.

Once those diamonds lose a little of their shine, those messages will start meaning something again.
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