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Old 10-05-2018, 09:56 AM
 
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By changing clothes, I mean taking their clothes off and getting naked and putting new clothes on.
If she's doing it where the guy can see her, No, that's not friend-zoney, that is conscious teasing or a coy dare.
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Old 10-05-2018, 09:58 AM
 
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huh? Why would that even be necessary??? Completely naked???
It's probably a sexual fantasy the OP has. Lol
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:00 AM
 
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I think so because they're alright with it since they don't even see their guy friend as a sexual being at that point.
: smack:
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:03 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Well, ya know, OP, in the old days, a gentleman turned around and faced away from a lady who needed to change her clothes. Men still do that in some parts of the world. You're not supposed to stand and gawk. Or maybe in the instance you describe, that's what she wanted the guy to do. (Were you the guy, btw?). If it happens again, turn your back toward her, and see what happens.
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:11 AM
 
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Well, ya know, OP, in the old days, a gentleman turned around and faced away from a lady who needed to change her clothes. Men still do that in some parts of the world. You're not supposed to stand and gawk. Or maybe in the instance you describe, that's what she wanted the guy to do. (Were you the guy, btw?). If it happens again, turn your back toward her, and see what happens.
Why would he turn away, is there a not a room she can go into, with a door that can close? lol
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:12 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Why would he turn away, is there a not a room she can go into, with a door that can close? lol
Are you asking this sincerely or are you pulling legs here???
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:14 AM
 
Location: NY
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I think so but it can also be an indicator that she wants the guy to realize what she has and for the guy to not friend zone her.
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:19 AM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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Of course it's teasing.

You wouldn't wave a nice juicy plump hot flaming steak in front of dog without giving him a taste, would we???
I've never liked that analogy as I do give the men I know and respect (friends) more credit than that. They are not animals or dogs. But I still just don't think it's cool.

I've talked in other threads that were more about nudity and other things that there are some special circumstances I have in my life that change the rules. But those do not apply to most people and not to this kind of conversation. So speaking about the likely scenario, in a private setting like a home, disrobing in front of a person who might have a sexual interest in you when you do NOT have a willingness to be sexual with them... I just don't think it's alright. It sounds like something that very young people do, before life has given them reasons to think about where their boundaries should be. It sounds like a question that a teenager would ask, in my opinion.
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:22 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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huh? Why would that even be necessary??? Completely naked???
Right? I'm trying to imagine a scenario when that would even come up. Why does she have to strip completely naked? Why is there no private place to change?
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Old 10-05-2018, 10:23 AM
 
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Are you asking this sincerely or are you pulling legs here???
He just wants to fight and let off some steam. Lol
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