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So long story short this girl was pretty much tempting my friend telling him she’d have sex with him, knowing he was in a relationship. He ended up breaking up with his girlfriend the other day, after about nearly 5 months of knowing this new girl.
Who’s wrong here? My friend for leaving his girlfriend to get with another girl he hung out with, while in a relationship? Or the girl for tempting my friend while knowing he was in one?
My friend was pretty loyal to his GF but then within the last 2 months she stared getting way too flirty. Telling him she wants to lose her v card to him, indirectly going topless infront of him...all while knowing he was in a relationship(she just turned 18, my friend is 21).
Both of them are in the wrong. Him more so than the attention seeking female, because he was in the relationship. Nobody can make you do anything. The whole point of a relationship is to resist the temptation of others, he couldn't do that. At least he didn't cheat (I'm assuming). But looking at their ages, it's not surprising. I'm predicting once he's tired of the new chick, he'll be bothering his ex again, along with other girls.
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So long story short this girl was pretty much tempting my friend telling him she’d have sex with him, knowing he was in a relationship. He ended up breaking up with his girlfriend the other day, after about nearly 5 months of knowing this new girl.
Who’s wrong here? My friend for leaving his girlfriend to get with another girl he hung out with, while in a relationship? Or the girl for tempting my friend while knowing he was in one?
My friend was pretty loyal to his GF but then within the last 2 months she stared getting way too flirty. Telling him she wants to lose her v card to him, indirectly going topless infront of him...all while knowing he was in a relationship(she just turned 18, my friend is 21).
I’d say the girl is wrong for messing with someone in a relationship. The friends at least broke up with his girl honestly before going for this other girl.
The side woman has no respect for boundaries, and the BF was disrespectful to his current GF by letting his D rule while he was still in a relationship with her.
IMO, neither of them behaved well in this situation.
So long story short this girl was pretty much tempting my friend telling him she’d have sex with him, knowing he was in a relationship. He ended up breaking up with his girlfriend the other day, after about nearly 5 months of knowing this new girl.
Who’s wrong here? My friend for leaving his girlfriend to get with another girl he hung out with, while in a relationship? Or the girl for tempting my friend while knowing he was in one?
My friend was pretty loyal to his GF but then within the last 2 months she stared getting way too flirty. Telling him she wants to lose her v card to him, indirectly going topless infront of him...all while knowing he was in a relationship(she just turned 18, my friend is 21).
Everyone is wrong here. An orgasm isn't the most important thing in the universe, even when you're 21.
We don't really know the whole story here.
You say your friend was, and I use the term loosely, "seduced" by this girl, knowing that he was already seeing another girl. But we don't know why exactly your friend ended his relationship. Or did she break up with him? Was their relationship a stable one? Were they constantly arguing/fighting? Was the gf talking to another guy?
If he broke up with his gf, he wanted to. He had been thinking about it and probably wasnt that into her in the first place. Maybe he was waiting to sleep with her, and new girl comes along and gives him what he wants. These things happen all the time in that age range. Kids figuring themselves out.
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