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Old 10-09-2018, 09:19 AM
 
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Hopefully this's the case, i don't want to be put in the friendzone



Can I ask what kind of sign is considered obvious? I want to let him know it's okay and I'm interested but at the same time, I don't want to come up too direct or eager
Well, one obvious one is that a woman can give a certain look when you are saying goodbye at the end of the date.. A look that shows she wants a kiss. I can't really describe it... A guy can just tell.

But, touch him. As you are at a table, talking as you eat... Or, if you are just someplace else... Touch his arm. Hold his hand. Something like that. If you do that once or twice, I think that signals that he can do the same. Then, if he is interested, he will.
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Old 10-09-2018, 11:00 AM
 
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Can I ask what kind of sign is considered obvious? I want to let him know it's okay and I'm interested but at the same time, I don't want to come up too direct or eager
You dont use signs, youve been using signs and yours are too subtle, that could be why they arent working.
You are going to have to be direct. If he isnt into it, you dont need him. Trying to ease your way into it isnt going to make him like you any more, or faster. If he even likes you. And be prepared for him to say "i dont like you in that way", which is one of the two responses youre looking to get.
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Old 10-09-2018, 11:10 AM
 
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When on a date with someone new - I take my cues from the woman usually.

With the political climate right now - even if I really like the woman, I see how the woman is acting. If it is obvious, maybe I will give a kiss. Otherwise, I wait for her to make the first move - so, I can't be accused of anything not appropriate.
There are oceans between initiating a kiss on a date and sexually assaulting a woman. Come on. Don't fall for the rhetoric some are trying to perpetuate on this topic. Just be respectful and you're fine.
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Old 10-09-2018, 11:14 AM
 
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The third date, they give each other a hug at the beginning and end, he laughs and enjoys being with her. He hasn't made any bigger move yet.


I fail to see a problem here. He's a nice guy and doesn't want to move faster than you want to.


Jeez, just try to act normally without overthinking everything.
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