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OK...you couldn't stay hard. What happened then? Did you just leave her hanging?
I don't want to get too explicit...but there ARE other things the two of you could do. IF the encounter was over, because you couldn't perform, she might've thought you were a selfish lover.
I'm not saying or implying that's the case, just pointing out it MIGHT be.
Yeah...I saw that after. That's what I get for skipping.
I've been with guys that couldn't perform. Sometimes, it mattered more to the guy...but I'm an adult, I realize that once a guy gets to a certain age, they're not like jack rabbits anymore. Which maybe is/could be a good thing. I think most females are willing to roll with it, and make the best of an awkard situation...if the guy is willing/able to chill out and relax, and do other loving things.
AND I've been with guys who were too fast...and then they were done, and I'm like "I shaved my legs for THIS?" lol
So I should text her now? I don't want her to think it was because I'm not attracted to her. A medication I'm taking causes ED.
Would you rather tell her this (and make no mistake, you should tell her) in person or over a phone call?
This is why I think it's bad when it's always only one person initiating contact (yet the non-initiator claims that they like the other person too). Once the initiator stops, then the non-initiator is left wondering what happened and they don't know how to or feel weird about picking up the phone because it's something they've never done before, and now that they want to, it seems awkward and out of place. Too many power dynamic problems and potential for hurt feelings.
Because she is always texting me so much I honestly didn't have time to initiate. The texts mostly just were a constant continuation, so there wasn't as much initiation as you would think, but her frequency was very high compared to normal.
First time sex with a basic stranger can sometimes be nerve racking. It could take a couple attempts to get comfortable, and get the blood flowing.
Did you have problems getting an erection prior to this?
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