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Old 10-25-2018, 06:31 AM
 
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This is why I hate trash talk and "jokes" like this. Because a lot of people lose their and get mad. It's like roasting, people intentionally nag and throw digs at someone for "fun" when it's really just a form of bullying. It starts off fun at first, then it gets personal, and people want to fight. It's the stupidest thing, why are you starting crap to begin with? These folks are creating their own storms.

Another thing that irritates me are the people who talk crap, and when someone retaliates, they want to get upset and gaslight. I don't think anybody should mess with each other like that, man or woman. Don't start none, won't be none.
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Old 10-25-2018, 06:39 AM
 
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This is why I hate trash talk and "jokes" like this. Because a lot of people lose their and get mad. It's like roasting, people intentionally nag and throw digs at someone for "fun" when it's really just a form of bullying. It starts off fun at first, then it gets personal, and people want to fight. It's the stupidest thing, why are you starting crap to begin with? These folks are creating their own storms.

Another thing that irritates me are the people who talk crap, and when someone retaliates, they want to get upset and gaslight. I don't think anybody should mess with each other like that, man or woman. Don't start none, won't be none.
Meh. The funniest people I hang out with are roast masters. It’s 90% of our interaction, roasting each other. And it’s hilarious. People that can’t take jokes tend to be insecure and are downers to be around.

I don’t think the OPs girl is joking. But as i said before, it’s an easy solution. Laugh at her. This should not affect him in the slightest.
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Old 10-25-2018, 06:43 AM
 
Location: Coastal Mid-Atlantic
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Once she loses respect for you. Time to move on.
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Old 10-25-2018, 06:52 AM
 
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My gf is a bit of a tom boy and has a strong personality and can be cocky. Today she was ranting about how she can beat up her past bfs and I said so you think you can beat me up? she basically said she can kick my ass. I normally don't get worked up by anything and for this one I got real pissed. I basically said if that is what you think we can go at it. No punching or kicking just straight grappling. I have a bit of grappling experience. I told her she needs to be humbled. It got real awkward in the car ride and I can't let it go. I really hate cocky people and she needs to be humbled. How would you guys respond?

I don't know how I feel about her. Our relationship is pretty recent and I have only met the sweet and feminine side but she has tomboy/strong personality/cocky qualities which are turn off.
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Old 10-25-2018, 06:55 AM
 
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Meh. The funniest people I hang out with are roast masters. It’s 90% of our interaction, roasting each other. And it’s hilarious. People that can’t take jokes tend to be insecure and are downers to be around.

I don’t think the OPs girl is joking. But as i said before, it’s an easy solution. Laugh at her. This should not affect him in the slightest.
Yeah that's all well and good for you and your friends. I think it's immature and uncalled for at times. Especially when people don't know how to stop. That's just my opinion.

As long as that person doesn't have a problem getting cussed out when they cross the line, cool. If I'm not messing with you, don't mess with me.
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Old 10-25-2018, 07:02 AM
 
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Yeah that's all well and good for you and your friends. I think it's immature and uncalled for at times. Especially when people don't know how to stop. That's just my opinion.

As long as that person doesn't have a problem getting cussed out when they cross the line, cool. If I'm not messing with you, don't mess with me.
Everything has a time and place. But overly sensitive people are an absolute drag.
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Old 10-25-2018, 07:06 AM
 
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Everything has a time and place. But overly sensitive people are an absolute drag.
Extremes on both sides are equally annoying in my eyes.

Good thing we can choose who we hang out with.
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Old 10-25-2018, 07:20 AM
 
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Geez...it's like the cold weather draws all the roaches to CD.
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Old 10-25-2018, 07:47 AM
 
Location: Central TX
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"That's hot."
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Old 10-25-2018, 07:54 AM
 
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Does it make you feel like a man trying to take your GF down a peg or two?

If so I would caution you to seek help as that is not a healthy reaction to carry.
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